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Demise of the ‘chav’ name?

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stilllill · 11/11/2023 19:07

I’ve lived on the same council estate for years. When I was younger every girl was Keeley, Courtney, Charmaine, Chantelle, etc.
Boys were Tyler, Liam, Scott, Riley, Bailey, etc.
Knew 3+ of each in school, and these names generally made our class very obvious.

Now I’ve noticed that the children on my estate have completely different names.

Girls:
Iris, Francesca, Esme, Belle and Elizabeth

Boys:
Roy, Jasper, Anthony, Isaac, Jacob

I think these are really timeless, classic names!

I know MN is very middle class, but anyone else noticed this change?

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IDoughnutKnow · 15/11/2023 09:10

So are these “chav names” limited to white British children or are you just projecting your Anglo-centric standards onto children whose backgrounds you may know little about?

I can assure you it's entirely white British children that we're talking about here. You'd be hard pushed to find Turkish parents calling their child Silli-mae.

pastypirate · 15/11/2023 09:38

CatamaranViper · 13/11/2023 07:22

Another Geordie over here and the charvas we used to have in the 90s/00s were called so mainly because of how they acted.
It was a complete disregard for any rules (both written and in written). So blasting music from their phones at the back of buses with their feet on the seats and taking up about 4 of them.
Before that it was smoking in the school grounds, purposely disturbing lessons, egging people's houses, starting fights if someone disagreed with them, shouting "hee-ya man, wot the fuck di yu think yu di-in?" if anyone asked them to stop or questioned them.

They could come from any background tbh so names were very varied. In my class (by this I mean class at school) alone we had Rachel, Beth, Jane, Rhonda, Charlotte, Ashley...just very normal names had by people from all sorts of backgrounds.

Agree with this. I tell my dc that to describe something as chavvy is a behaviour and not a comment on choices of name, apparel and so on. The only thing I describe as chavvy just now is vaping.

Name stuff is very interesting. I would have said Chantelle is one of those names until I read she's some euro princess - Marie Chantal I think.

KirstenBlest · 15/11/2023 09:53

Princess Marie-Chantal is foreign, so the hyphenated name isn't 'chavvy' . She grew up in the UK, I think, but her parents are not originally british.

Chantelle seems like the name of a reality show participant.

MIW01 · 22/11/2023 11:25

Definitely hyphenated names associated with a certain socio-economic background and that applies in the USA!

I plan to give my child a name that really means something to me and my DH and the journey we've been on together. We've been TTC over 5 years now and just about to go for 1st DE FET in December. All hopes now pinned on this as only got 1 embryo from 7 eggs! A lot of time to ponder names and what they mean to us.

HalloweenonXMas · 22/11/2023 11:31

I wish you luck in your journey.

GingerSquid · 22/11/2023 19:55

I think the OP meant for the thread to be light hearted. Us folk actually from council estates don’t get so hung up on things and “chav” is more of a cultural thing than just being born working class; lots of my family aren’t chavvy at all, a few are! My mates from back home, have boys with the ie / y sound - Reggie, Bobby, Lenny, Teddy, Lockie, Albie etc and also deffo the surname trend - Cooper, Jackson, Porter, Parker for girls it’s that old woman trend or an ie / y ending - Elise, Lily, Gracie, Lacey and Luna / Lola. I live in Spain now and the Spanish MC don’t touch Luna or Lola 😂 it’s all Alba and Clara.

Sconehenge · 22/11/2023 21:28

@AllProperTeaIsTheft i don’t think it’s that “posh” people ditch things because poor people take them up, it’s just that certain groups of affluent people are early adopters of trends. Then this slowly gets noticed and taken up by the slower adopting masses as the trend sets in. Then the early adopters see something else that they simply must have and the cycle continues.

Although I love Freakonomics @MrsTerryPratchett wasn’t that part more about the “power” of a name and whether a Braxon-ray would be more successful moving through life as a “James”, if all other factors controlled?

I think what’s probably happening, rather than “posh” names trickling down per se, it’s just that we have much more expanded/overlapping bubbles due to rampant social media use. 15 years ago a woman naming her baby might just look to the people around her.

These days she has access to many different examples from lots of social groups and is likely being influenced by much more than regional name trends, so ends up going for something with broader appeal?

CowboyJoanna · 22/11/2023 22:15

The chavvy kids round here all have names like Aaron, Jayden, Lexi-Mae, Casey-Leigh, Jenson, Kieran, Callum, Chantelle etc., Probably some nonstandard spelling cause a lot of em round here the parents didn't go to school

Alohapotato · 26/11/2023 20:34

LadyGeorginaSmythe · 12/11/2023 09:20

I think sometimes people read or perceive judgement in others observations.
There wasn't anything sneery or judgemental in the OP, but you can't discuss names with mentioning said names so there will always have to be an element of being class-ist.

We live in an ex council house on an estate that was originally all council and maybe now 50/50. We got priced out of the village we were in previously (but also in an ex CH) when we had children and needed more space. My upbringing was probably lower MC but we are definitely WC and lower income but university educated. Class divides are changing and COL blurs the lines. This will impact who we mix with and the names we come across, the schools our kids go to etc.

I want a "better" school for my kids, but don't want to put them in a situation where they compare lifestyles and we fall short. Anyway, my kids all have traditional names that I consider class less and this was intentional. I think many name their baby without necessarily thinking about the baby as a child/teen/adult. I always wanted names which wouldn't age them on a CV or raise negative preconceptions.

Edited

Now I'm curious to know what names are..

jillyjanie · 26/11/2023 21:06

The 'chav' names from problem families on the nearby estate here are names like. In order of most popular:

Girls

Beau, Lola, Nova, Lyla

Boys

Finn, Mason, Brodie

LadyGeorginaSmythe · 26/11/2023 21:17

Alohapotato · 26/11/2023 20:34

Now I'm curious to know what names are..

I'm not going to out myself but similar style/age/class/tradition names to my kids would be James, Alexander, Hannah, Eleanor.

Clearly my username is a pisstake....

Pennyapple · 11/12/2023 20:11

MrsTerryPratchett · 11/11/2023 19:21

Read Freakonomics. He talks about names floating down social classes. Starts with the posh, then the MC wants to seem posh and so on. As soon as Tyler and Rae name their child Margot, it's done for the MC.

So using the freakenomics guide what are the current upper class names that will trickle down the classes?

Inthebleakmidwinter2 · 14/12/2023 22:11

I live near a council estate and my son attends the local school. There are so many Esme's plus a couple of Renesme's (which I believe is from twilight) and a load of Lola-mae's too.

hangingonfordearlife1 · 14/12/2023 22:28

Ibizabar · 12/11/2023 09:13

I'm going to ask another question.

Do you all think that being WC makes you a chav because that's what I'm getting from this thread.

no working class generally work. chavs don't do that. they use the dole money for their fake tan and eyelashes and spend their days in asda in their robe and hair rollers

Newsenmum · 15/12/2023 12:36

Inthebleakmidwinter2 · 14/12/2023 22:11

I live near a council estate and my son attends the local school. There are so many Esme's plus a couple of Renesme's (which I believe is from twilight) and a load of Lola-mae's too.

People are actually using Renesmee? 😱

SeethroughDress · 15/12/2023 13:13

Newsenmum · 15/12/2023 12:36

People are actually using Renesmee? 😱

I’ve only ever seen that written down and in my head it’s always pronounced ‘REEN-smee’ to rhyme with ‘teen glee’.

Inthebleakmidwinter2 · 15/12/2023 13:15

Yes. Just to clarify I'm not judging children on their names, it's just an observation about a trend in names. I don't think there's anything chavvy about Esme at all.

WhatsTheUseOfWorrying · 15/12/2023 13:54

These threads always go the same way.

A poster uses ‘chav’ and a Senior Common Room-style barney breaks out about class, the wickedness of Britain, how we should never judge or “sneer”, etc etc. 🙄

Which overlooks the reality that everyone judges, including - in fact especially - neighbouring towns and counties judging each other.

FWIW, I think the very posh get judged much more than chavs and ‘gammons’ do. And quite right too.

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