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Demise of the ‘chav’ name?

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stilllill · 11/11/2023 19:07

I’ve lived on the same council estate for years. When I was younger every girl was Keeley, Courtney, Charmaine, Chantelle, etc.
Boys were Tyler, Liam, Scott, Riley, Bailey, etc.
Knew 3+ of each in school, and these names generally made our class very obvious.

Now I’ve noticed that the children on my estate have completely different names.

Girls:
Iris, Francesca, Esme, Belle and Elizabeth

Boys:
Roy, Jasper, Anthony, Isaac, Jacob

I think these are really timeless, classic names!

I know MN is very middle class, but anyone else noticed this change?

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hitmebabyonemoretime21 · 12/11/2023 13:46

This thread is giving me Katie Hopkins vibes - judgy and bitchy.

sandalsinthebin · 12/11/2023 14:13

Applebeard · 12/11/2023 09:26

I went to school in the 70s with quite a lot of last-names-as-first-names kids.

It's a tradition in parts of Yorkshire to use your mother's or grandmother's maiden name as the first name of your first son.

The tradition had more or less died out by the 50s, but gets occasional revivals.

I wonder why this isn't more popular in England it's a lovely idea. It keeps the mum's surname going, and would add to the mix of first names in circulation. I wish I'd thought of it when naming DS

SeethroughDress · 12/11/2023 14:22

sandalsinthebin · 12/11/2023 14:13

I wonder why this isn't more popular in England it's a lovely idea. It keeps the mum's surname going, and would add to the mix of first names in circulation. I wish I'd thought of it when naming DS

I would hope because the mother’s surname is now far more likely to be given to the child as an actual surname.

IDoughnutKnow · 12/11/2023 14:59

Ibizabar · 12/11/2023 09:09

So you all think that living on a council estate makes you a chav?

Have I got that right?

No, you have got that completely wrong.

Footballers are a prime example of why you are wrong.

theduchessofspork · 12/11/2023 18:05

MrsTerryPratchett · 11/11/2023 19:21

Read Freakonomics. He talks about names floating down social classes. Starts with the posh, then the MC wants to seem posh and so on. As soon as Tyler and Rae name their child Margot, it's done for the MC.

A bit of this, a bit of some nature names that seem to appeal to both the more hippy end of the middle class as well as working class (eg Skye) and also a wider variety of names full stop.

theduchessofspork · 12/11/2023 18:08

willWillSmithsmith · 12/11/2023 10:35

The council house I grew up in (and tbh was a bit embarrassed by) is now worth half a million (I was astounded). When I was a kid it seemed tiny in comparison to my (private house) school friends but I can look back and see it was a pretty substantial, very solidly built house, especially compared to the new builds of today. This was the 60s/70s and everyone in my class, whether WC or MC, all had the same type of names (Linda, Jane, Julie, Sandra, Peter, Paul, Alan etc). You wouldn’t have been able to make any judgements on name alone back then. I can’t think of a single name that would have been considered ‘chavy’.

Edited

Julie, Sandra and Linda were generally not middle class names in that era, (Julia and Alexandra were).

Extraahott · 12/11/2023 19:53

Highly doubt you live on a council estate OP, if you did, it probably wouldn’t enter your mind to start a such a thread. Don’t sneer at the people that you live amongst!

sandalsinthebin · 12/11/2023 20:22

I would hope because the mother’s surname is now far more likely to be given to the child as an actual surname.

Not more likely than the father's surname. A very low % of children are given their mother's surname, I believe about 5% in the UK

willWillSmithsmith · 12/11/2023 22:06

theduchessofspork · 12/11/2023 18:08

Julie, Sandra and Linda were generally not middle class names in that era, (Julia and Alexandra were).

They certainly were. I had a friend called Sandra who lived in one of the ‘posh’ houses. There were no Julias or Alexandras in my school.

Just to add, my point was that the names were more neutral. Linda did not scream ‘chav’ nor did Julie. You would not have been able to make an assumption based on the names, they were neither more WC or more MC.

theduchessofspork · 12/11/2023 22:09

willWillSmithsmith · 12/11/2023 22:06

They certainly were. I had a friend called Sandra who lived in one of the ‘posh’ houses. There were no Julias or Alexandras in my school.

Just to add, my point was that the names were more neutral. Linda did not scream ‘chav’ nor did Julie. You would not have been able to make an assumption based on the names, they were neither more WC or more MC.

Edited

They might have been, but they were unusual.

willWillSmithsmith · 12/11/2023 22:14

theduchessofspork · 12/11/2023 22:09

They might have been, but they were unusual.

Well obviously I don’t know where you were living/going to school in the 60s/70s but all the kids had those type of names where I came from. For instance I had two Angela’s in my class, one from the same council estate as me and one from the big posh houses (I still remember her coming to school with a pair of shoes I had seen and wanted but my mum couldn’t afford).

IDoughnutKnow · 12/11/2023 22:36

This is actually quite interesting.

I was at school in the 70s and 80s (same private girls' school from 5-18), and the most common names were Sarah, Rachel, Elizabeth, Rebecca, Julia, Alexandra, Frances, Anna, Caroline, Katherine/Catherine, and Clare/Claire. Which are all pretty 'classless' names.

stilllill · 12/11/2023 22:39

@Extraahott Am I not allowed to notice changes in name trends in my area/class? I’m not sneering. I’ve been friends with many a Charmaine Smile and have what Katie Hopkins considered a ‘chav’ name myself. I think it’s ugly but it’s like any other trend isn’t it.

I never in my life thought the word chav was so controversial.

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stilllill · 12/11/2023 22:41

@IDoughnutKnow Funnily I’d consider those quite MC names, I don’t think I know anyone of that age group with those names!

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IDoughnutKnow · 12/11/2023 22:56

stilllill · 12/11/2023 22:41

@IDoughnutKnow Funnily I’d consider those quite MC names, I don’t think I know anyone of that age group with those names!

I'm not sure I know anyone in that age group who doesn't have one of those names (apart from the few Georginas and Harriets and Amelias).

I would say that names like Augusta, Hortensia, Florian and Valentine were pretty rare when I was at school, but were not regarded as out of the ordinary at my DC's boarding schools (I mention these names as I used one of them for one of my DC).

The British class system is endlessly interesting.

IDoughnutKnow · 12/11/2023 22:57

BTW, @stilllill, I think everyone knows what you mean by "chav", even if they tie themselves in knots trying to say why it's such an awful word (and loaded with awful assumptions). Whatever its etymology, it's shorthand for something which we all understand.

StBrides · 12/11/2023 23:13

IDoughnutKnow · 12/11/2023 09:03

Another name which has done the crossover is Ottilie. Beautiful name, when pronounced correctly. Chav City when pronounced Otterly.

? Oh-tilly?

IDoughnutKnow · 13/11/2023 00:02

StBrides · 12/11/2023 23:13

? Oh-tilly?

Oh dear no.

It is (or should be) Oh-tee-lee-uh.

Not Otterly Botterly or Ohtilly Bohtilly.

sparkedsparkle · 13/11/2023 06:50

Depends on different areas

I grew up in west London and the typical 'chav' names were Kelly, Shelly, Hannah, Hayley, Brooke, Ryan, Scott, Russel, James.

As I got older the chav children were all Mia, Ria, Tia, raiden, kayden, jayden.

Living in Kent and older still the chav children have names like Bambi, Esme, Flossy, Binkie, Turner, Diego, Leandro

CatamaranViper · 13/11/2023 07:22

Another Geordie over here and the charvas we used to have in the 90s/00s were called so mainly because of how they acted.
It was a complete disregard for any rules (both written and in written). So blasting music from their phones at the back of buses with their feet on the seats and taking up about 4 of them.
Before that it was smoking in the school grounds, purposely disturbing lessons, egging people's houses, starting fights if someone disagreed with them, shouting "hee-ya man, wot the fuck di yu think yu di-in?" if anyone asked them to stop or questioned them.

They could come from any background tbh so names were very varied. In my class (by this I mean class at school) alone we had Rachel, Beth, Jane, Rhonda, Charlotte, Ashley...just very normal names had by people from all sorts of backgrounds.

KirstenBlest · 13/11/2023 07:37

@IDoughnutKnow , It is (or should be) Oh-tee-lee-uh. That's the german pronunciation. The french pronounce it 'ott-e-lee'.

IDoughnutKnow · 13/11/2023 09:14

KirstenBlest · 13/11/2023 07:37

@IDoughnutKnow , It is (or should be) Oh-tee-lee-uh. That's the german pronunciation. The french pronounce it 'ott-e-lee'.

Very true. The French can get away with it, though, as they make it sound musical. "Otterly" is a very different matter. It's a bit like Amélie (nice name) and the British Amelie-pronounced-Ammerley (not nice).

KirstenBlest · 13/11/2023 09:37

@IDoughnutKnow , I agree with you. Amelie, Elodie, Natalie, Ottile all sound fine in French, but don't sound very nice in UK accent.

Ammuhly, Elluhdy, Na'uh-ly, Oh-illy. Yuk

StBrides · 13/11/2023 09:41

IDoughnutKnow · 13/11/2023 00:02

Oh dear no.

It is (or should be) Oh-tee-lee-uh.

Not Otterly Botterly or Ohtilly Bohtilly.

I don't know any Otillies but Otterly made me laugh

theduchessofspork · 13/11/2023 13:54

willWillSmithsmith · 12/11/2023 22:14

Well obviously I don’t know where you were living/going to school in the 60s/70s but all the kids had those type of names where I came from. For instance I had two Angela’s in my class, one from the same council estate as me and one from the big posh houses (I still remember her coming to school with a pair of shoes I had seen and wanted but my mum couldn’t afford).

I guess it depends a bit what you mean by MC, but those would generally be typically working class (or at any rate lower middle class names) from that era in the UK as a whole. But perhaps not in specific areas.

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