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Family don't like baby's name

114 replies

Shelly2706985 · 06/11/2023 09:05

Expecting baby boy in 3 weeks and we can't get a name, the only name me and hubby have agreed on is Casey, but every single person I tell screws up there face and say naw I don't like that it's a girl's name,
My other kids are Jake, Annabelle and Jamie.
I don't want to call him it if people are going to make fun of the name.

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dontforgetme · 06/11/2023 16:45

I love it op. As it happens every one and their dog said something about my DD's name. I stuck with it and 10 years later still bloody love it.

CheshireCat1 · 06/11/2023 16:49

It’s a boys name, there used to be a TV series called Casey Jones about a railroad engineer, I think Johnny Cash sang the song as well. I like the name.

PercivalWolfrick2000 · 06/11/2023 16:51

The only Casey’s I know are boys. But also if you and your partner like it, it’s no one else's business! Some people in my family didn’t like my daughters name, I didn’t give a shite!
Congratulations btw x

Whataretheodds · 06/11/2023 16:53

Casey not impossible for a boy. Not really my style but here are some similar vibe boy names:

Clark
Chase
Charlton
Cain

SDBM · 06/11/2023 17:08

I love Casey as a boys name but that’s probably because it’s my older brother’s name. He wasn’t bullied for it and no one has ever told him that it is strictly a girls name. Call your bubba whatever the hell you want.

Lifeinlists · 06/11/2023 17:09

Whataretheodds · 06/11/2023 16:53

Casey not impossible for a boy. Not really my style but here are some similar vibe boy names:

Clark
Chase
Charlton
Cain

Yes they are but they're not really a similar vibe to her other children's names. I think that's where her family are coming from. A pp who was ridiculed for suggesting Joshua was making the same point.

But they do become whatever name they end up with so it doesn't matter too much!

SENDintheClowns101 · 06/11/2023 17:18

Casey is the boy variant to me, Kacey for girls. Nothing wrong with a gender neutral name. Go with what you like.

FictionalCharacter · 06/11/2023 17:32

It can be either a girl’s name or a boy’s.
Call your child the name you like, it’s not like you’ve chosen something stupid like Arse or Flanflinger or Sexdungeon.
If you’re relatives don’t like it they’re free to have their own kinds and name them as they choose!

Bristolnewcomer · 06/11/2023 17:32

I think it's fine for a boy or a girl, a bit like Ashley.

I also like Cary (as in Cary Grant) which has a similar sound.

HitsAndMrs · 06/11/2023 17:33

Boys name to me and it's lovely. It really doesn't matter what others think. I'd have loved a Boy Jesse! People hated it but I don't care.

Bristolnewcomer · 06/11/2023 17:33

FictionalCharacter · 06/11/2023 17:32

It can be either a girl’s name or a boy’s.
Call your child the name you like, it’s not like you’ve chosen something stupid like Arse or Flanflinger or Sexdungeon.
If you’re relatives don’t like it they’re free to have their own kinds and name them as they choose!

How did you get hold of my shortlist? 😠

NoHeavenNoMore · 06/11/2023 17:33

Our girl was going to be Casey. Or Deacon.
I love it xx

Gnomegnomegnome · 06/11/2023 17:35

Casey is definitely a boys name to me.
Kasey is a girls name.

Gnomegnomegnome · 06/11/2023 17:37

FictionalCharacter · 06/11/2023 17:32

It can be either a girl’s name or a boy’s.
Call your child the name you like, it’s not like you’ve chosen something stupid like Arse or Flanflinger or Sexdungeon.
If you’re relatives don’t like it they’re free to have their own kinds and name them as they choose!

How very dare you! My little Arsedungeon is very much adored by our whole family. Can’t ever find a bleddy cup with his name on though!

happystrummer · 06/11/2023 17:52

pizzicato · 06/11/2023 10:48

Casey Jones...as soon as I heard that I was transported back in time and the song "Casey Jones….he was steamin’ and a rollin’ on the Canonball Express! " 😂Definitely a boy/man's name.

Thread divert.....OMG I had completely forgotten that and have had to find it on YouTube....another child of the 60s

BrimfulOfMash · 06/11/2023 17:52

Boys name.

Kit
Caleb
Theo
Jacob

Starchipenterprise · 06/11/2023 17:57

I second the poster who said only share the name when your baby is born. Then you will see which name 'suits' your baby best. It's only you and your partner who need to. Be happy with the name !

RainbowNinja77 · 06/11/2023 18:00

I only know female Caseys - not sure if it works for a boy, but your baby, your choice.

Also, no one is ever bullied because of their name. Bullying is nothing to do with traits of the person being bullied.

bratchlocks · 06/11/2023 18:04

RainbowNinja77 · 06/11/2023 18:00

I only know female Caseys - not sure if it works for a boy, but your baby, your choice.

Also, no one is ever bullied because of their name. Bullying is nothing to do with traits of the person being bullied.

Erm I don't think that's accurate. I was bullied about my name. Lots of kids are.

Daisyblue77 · 06/11/2023 18:07

Its not a girls name . My grandson has it .and it does not matter what anyone else thinks, its your choice. Plus they are rude to even say they dont like it

RuthW · 06/11/2023 18:17

I know it's unisex but it's like calling your baby boy Hillary, kim, Tracey or Shirley.

Mydogfoundthechainsaw · 06/11/2023 18:22

Personally, I love the name Casey for a boy. I wouldn’t worry what other people think, if you love it go for it!

CSB10 · 06/11/2023 18:26

It doesn't gel with the others
Jude
Jonah
Jonty

LizzBurg · 06/11/2023 18:40

I see it as a unisex name. Call your child what you like, give it a couple of months and they won’t think of her as anything but Casey.

leccybill · 06/11/2023 19:34

The only boy Casey I've heard of is the tattooed influencer Sammi's son. I love her though so i back her choices.

I've taught a female Kaci, Kaycee and Cayce.