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My husband hates every name!!

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ImNotAMermaid · 18/08/2023 20:32

Dh is driving me loopy with his lack of flexibility on names. We are expecting a boy in two weeks and we still don’t even have any names we both like. Names we have are as follows:
Ollie (ambivalent but we don’t like it)
Jordan (I hate but dh likes)
Every name I suggest dh hates, the only name he’s come up with is Jordan. Dh likes gender neutral names which I don’t mind but I want something masculine sounding.

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thinprocuredclams · 18/08/2023 21:40

Teresa but for a boy. It is a unisex name. A lot of unisex names can be used for both senses.

Cassius,Cash or Cass are good shortenings.
Cassidy.
Monroe.
Winston.
Everett.
Meon.
Merlin.
Remi? Cool.
Caspian.
Jasper.
Sebastian.
Leith.
Pierce.
Keiran
Good luck!

thinprocuredclams · 18/08/2023 21:43

Iday Abdullah III as an exsmpls of dad or grandad name but II III to honour lineage

ImNotAMermaid · 18/08/2023 21:44

thinprocuredclams · 18/08/2023 21:43

Iday Abdullah III as an exsmpls of dad or grandad name but II III to honour lineage

What a fantastic name I’ll call my son it and change my name to match of course.

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MurielTheMignonette · 18/08/2023 21:47

Jacob ! That's great. Who cares if it's close to a relatives name as long as it isn't a sibling that should be fine.

cherryassam · 18/08/2023 21:53

Jordan and Jacob are both Hebrew names, so based on those:

Aaron
Adam
Asa
Asher
Benjamin
Caleb
Daniel
Davis
Eli
Emmanuel
Emmet
Ethan
Ezra
Gabriel
Gideon
Isaac
Jadon
Jared
Jesse
Joel
Joseph
Joshua
Josiah
Judah
Levi
Malachi
Matthew
Micah
Nathan
Nathaniel
Noah
Oren
Raphael
Reuben
Samson
Samuel
Saul
Seth
Shiloh
Solomon
Tobias
Zachary

mathanxiety · 18/08/2023 22:13

Obelisk?
He is trying to wind you up. Give him a deathstare amd tell him you don't find him funny.

The two of you need to come up with a list of 12 names each.

You both get to strike 8 names from each other's list.

You will be left with 8 names to choose from (first plus middle).

Suggestions:
Austin
Finn
Justin
Finley
Fraser
Fergus
Euan
Rafferty

SkaneTos · 18/08/2023 22:18

Maybe a name from your families or ancestors?

But I also think mathanxiety's suggestions is good. Try that.

Good luck!

HairyToity · 18/08/2023 22:20

Oscar or Toby

Potatomashed · 18/08/2023 22:22

Ellis?

Laurdo · 18/08/2023 22:35

Caleb

SpamFrittersYouSay · 18/08/2023 22:35

Chanteclear

Globulo

Christickens

Balofoy

Grondisk

Honestly just don't think it. You both clearly want 'out there' names... just invent one and hope that your child will be happy with it..

TetrapanaxRex · 18/08/2023 22:39

Jasper.
Julian.
Jude.

TetrapanaxRex · 18/08/2023 22:41

Joaquin.
Jared.
Jamison.
Heathrow.
Julius.

Fivebeanchilli · 18/08/2023 22:41

Sorry for any repeats but how about...

Caleb
Zachary
Levi
Barney
Malachi
Micah
Otto
Oscar
Guy

ImNotAMermaid · 18/08/2023 22:42

SpamFrittersYouSay · 18/08/2023 22:35

Chanteclear

Globulo

Christickens

Balofoy

Grondisk

Honestly just don't think it. You both clearly want 'out there' names... just invent one and hope that your child will be happy with it..

I think this is the issue, dh wants something different while I’d be happy to call ds Sam if I’m being quite honest!

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KayEmAy · 18/08/2023 22:45

New rule - no free vetoes. If he hates a name and wants to veto one as an option, he needs to present another in it's place. :)

If he doesn't, that name stays as an option. Pretty simple, if he doesn't help name the baby, he doesn't get to name the baby. lol

For example you are not a fan of Jordan, you can veto it and another forward. One of the many names you probably have mentioned. With two weeks left I would recommend using an actual physical board. With note cards or a chalkboard, sometimes looking at them helps decide a feeling, and it will help keep track of ones you BOTH like.

OhcantthInkofaname · 18/08/2023 23:12

ImNotAMermaid · 18/08/2023 20:32

Dh is driving me loopy with his lack of flexibility on names. We are expecting a boy in two weeks and we still don’t even have any names we both like. Names we have are as follows:
Ollie (ambivalent but we don’t like it)
Jordan (I hate but dh likes)
Every name I suggest dh hates, the only name he’s come up with is Jordan. Dh likes gender neutral names which I don’t mind but I want something masculine sounding.

Jordan is one of the most gender neutral names I've heard!
Tell him this crazy American lady on mumsnet says you're to name him Oliver Neil.

mydadmovedtomoscow · 18/08/2023 23:22

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RachelGreensHair · 18/08/2023 23:25

Charlie

RachelGreensHair · 18/08/2023 23:27

Kit

I need to stop watching Heartstopper!!

SleepingStandingUp · 18/08/2023 23:28

SpamFrittersYouSay · 18/08/2023 22:35

Chanteclear

Globulo

Christickens

Balofoy

Grondisk

Honestly just don't think it. You both clearly want 'out there' names... just invent one and hope that your child will be happy with it..

DH seems to, OP is more worried of they'd let a "Jordan" into the right kind of school

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 18/08/2023 23:29

ImNotAMermaid · 18/08/2023 21:14

Dh has also suggested Obelisk nn ‘Obie’ but I think it sounds ridiculous!! I don’t want to name my baby after a comic character or a stone monument!!

I like Obie short for Oberon

BarbieDesvelada · 18/08/2023 23:32

ImNotAMermaid · 18/08/2023 22:42

I think this is the issue, dh wants something different while I’d be happy to call ds Sam if I’m being quite honest!

pick something normal that isn't too used, Dominic, Victor, Patrick, Saul

Jordan seems really dated to me, although I quite like Jody for a boy. I like those unisex names on boys. Sasha, Jody, Kim, but only for a boy.

mydadmovedtomoscow · 18/08/2023 23:46

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DiaNaranja · 18/08/2023 23:54

ImNotAMermaid · 18/08/2023 21:38

Juggernaut was my genuine reaction to the suggestion Obelisk as well pp. He’s just told me he likes Jacob (I do too) however we can’t use it as it’s a close relatives name!

I know a Jakob who goes by Kobi, do you think he may like that?