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Worried friend will choose same name (due before me)

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sashastuck · 09/07/2023 18:12

Hi all,

This sounds a little silly and ‘what if’ but I need to let it out!
My friend is due a couple of months before me. She’s having a boy and I THINK I am also having a boy due to scan pics, guesses and also a strong feeling. We’ve had our boy name in place since before we conceived - to be honest, it’s the only name we agree on and both love.
I have this irrational fear that my friend is going to name her baby the same thing, just going by something she said to me once. She didn’t say the name but gave a clue to it that made me wonder…. And it’s seriously keeping me up at night 😂 If she does choose the same name, what would you do/say?

Should I stick with my name that I absolutely adore or is that awful? We’re not best friends by any means but I’d still feel so guilty.

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Fiadht · 26/08/2023 22:38

🎉🎉🎉

Overthinker34 · 28/08/2023 08:48

So glad your situation has worked out well for you ❤ Still so upset by my own situation though

CurlewKate · 28/08/2023 08:50

If she's a good friend, talk about it!

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