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Girl name - middle name Iris Wendy

32 replies

Houseelf90 · 18/04/2023 21:49

Middle names have been chosen in honour of late family members - I know “Wendy” isn’t the best of names but a close family member of this name died when I was young so want to include her.

So far we have shortlisted to:

Elsie

Cleo
Thea

I like these names but just don’t love them. We aren’t finding out if we’re having a boy or girl and the boy name has been long decided but girl we just can’t decide!

Name must be fairly short, don’t mind old fashioned but still “trendy”, although not too “out there” (yes, yes I am picky 🤣)

Surname begins with A and is fairly common!

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Houseelf90 · 18/04/2023 21:55

P.s - apologies to anyone named Wendy!! It really suited my family member but I just wouldn’t choose it for a baby first name these days 😊

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Drummend01 · 18/04/2023 22:01

Tessa Iris Wendy
Anna Iris Wendy
Paige Iris Wendy
Maya Iris Wendy
Penny Iris Wendy
Poppy Iris Wendy
Clara Iris Wendy
Sadie Iris Wendy
Pearl Iris Wendy
Hazel Iris Wendy
Leah Iris Wendy
Eva Iris Wendy

fairycupcakes · 18/04/2023 22:27

Elisa (El ee sa) Iris Wendy
Chloé Iris Wendy
Alice Iris Wendy
Sophie Iris Wendy
Eleanor Iris Wendy
Cora Iris Wendy
Amelie Iris Wendy
Millie Iris Wendy
Tilly Iris Wendy
Olivia Iris Wendy
Penny Iris Wendy
Brontë Iris Wendy
Eloise Iris Wendy
Lucy Iris Wendy
Freya Iris Wendy

@Houseelf90 :)

Luredbyapomegranate · 18/04/2023 22:31

Cleo is great

The other two very overused

Lois
Stella
Thora
Zoe
Carys
Frances
Lisbeth
Elsbeth
Robin
Flora
Laurel
Ines
Esther
Sylvie

MuddledMindy · 18/04/2023 22:34

Lois
Marina
Violet
Hope
Wrenn
Annie

AutumnColours9 · 18/04/2023 22:37

Elsie
Cleo
Thea

I like all of the above

Also how about

Tia
Leona/ie
Clara
Ivy (maybe too many Is)
Maisy
Eliza
Isla
Phoebe
Mia
Freya
Joelle
Charlotte/ie
Sadie
Orla
Kyla
Zoe
Briony
Noelle

Duckingella · 18/04/2023 23:24

My DD's middle name is Wendy;also a family name like yours too.It's a rare middle name these days but still lovely.

AngeloMysterioso · 18/04/2023 23:29

Does it have to be Iris Wendy or can it be Wendy Iris?

Theoldwoman · 19/04/2023 03:33

Not a fan of your list, sorry.

Rhiannon Wendy A.
Danielle Wendy A.
Lucille Wendy A.
Frances Wendy A.
Harriet Wendy A.
Olive Wendy A.
Charlotte Wendy A.
Kristin Wendy A.
Kate Wendy A.
Elisabeth Wendy A.
Genevieve Wendy A.
Juliet Wendy A.
Meredith Wendy A.
Caroline Wendy A.

I prefer 3 syllables, not ending in an A or E sound.

Theoldwoman · 19/04/2023 03:35

Ooops I missed the Iris bit!

Houseelf90 · 19/04/2023 09:37

Thank you, some great suggestions, will review the shortlist 😁

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DonnaGiovanna · 19/04/2023 10:09

I like Eleanor Iris Wendy (goes with an A surname too). My mum was Wendy and her best friend Iris so this thread has made me smile.

KirstenBlest · 19/04/2023 10:30

Focus on the first name and how it sounds with the surname.

Cleo Addams sounds OK. I don't like Elsie or Thea. El- namees and Theo far too popular
**added extra letter to avoid potentially outing you

shoopshoopdedoo · 19/04/2023 11:07

I prefer Cleo from your list. Not so keen on the other two. Really like lots of the other ideas from PPs. Also - I actually love the name Wendy!

Houseelf90 · 19/04/2023 13:25

Ahh @DonnaGiovanna thats awesome, pleased I could make you smile!

Thank you @KirstenBlest, not quite Adams but appreciate the extra letter!

@shoopshoopdedoo initially I was going to leave it out, but I’m so glad we decided to put it in and the more I say it/write it; the more I like it!!

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Terribleactor · 19/04/2023 13:40

I feel like Olive would work!

dwightschrutebeets · 19/04/2023 14:20

Cleo and Thea are my fave I love those. Funnily there's a Wendy at the baby/toddler group I go to and I've never seen a baby Wendy before!

mathanxiety · 19/04/2023 15:26

Cleo is very nice.

Suggestions:
Hazel Iris Wendy
Leonie Iris Wendy
Daphne Iris Wendy
Evelyn Iris Wendy
Tamsin Iris Wendy
Abigail Iris Wendy
Elspeth Iris Wendy
Harriet Iris Wendy
Phoebe Iris Wendy
Eden Iris Wendy
Amber Iris Wendy
Erin Iris Wendy
Mabel Iris Wendy
Robyn Iris Wendy
Isobel Iris Wendy
Ingrid Iris Wendy
Greer Iris Wendy
Hope Iris Wendy

mathanxiety · 19/04/2023 15:45

Sophie Iris Wendy
Zoe Iris Wendy
Naomi Iris Wendy
Ellen Iris Wendy
Rachel Iris Wendy

goldenfoliage · 19/04/2023 17:27

I really like Iris Wendy as middle - seems unique
that said, if you want to follow naming rules, you can't use -a ending name - if you surname starts with A, something like Mara turns in Maraadams and kind of slurs. That said I would break this rule, cause you also have middle names ending with -y and -s rules out some names such as Louise or Sophie, cause Wendy doesn't flow with -y ending names, while Iris runs into -s ending names. In fact, I would go for name that doesn't flow, cause very little name flows with your middles and surname.

Emma Iris Wendy A.
Sibyl Iris Wendy A.
Giselle Iris Wendy A.
Megan Iris Wendy A.
Juliet Iris Wendy A.
Seren Iris Wendy A.
Esther Iris Wendy A.
Mabel Iris Wendy A.
Maud Iris Wendy A.
Paige Iris Wendy A.
Violet Iris Wendy A.

I know you also said short names, but might be easier to pick longer name that ends in consonant rather than short name - short names ending in consonant are in short supply - most of them end in -a or -y

I would also suggest Wendy Iris instead of Iris Wendy, Wendy Iris flows better cause of accents, and I think Wendy is wonderful name, but I understand why some might not like it - it's very dated, but that's not bad thing - it makes name tested and well-known.

some names that might work, but don't flow well or aren't short
Katherine Iris Wendy
Amy Iris Wendy
Lucy Iris Wendy
Alice Iris Wendy
Elena Iris Wendy
Greta Iris Wendy
Cecily Iris Wendy
Helena Iris Wendy
Daphne Iris Wendy
Chloe Iris Wendy
Odette Iris Wendy
Mary Iris Wendy
Flora Iris Wendy
Thisbe Iris Wendy
Sophie Iris Wendy
Gwen Iris Wendy
Polina Iris Wendy
Kate Iris Wendy
Julia Iris Wendy
Margaret Iris Wendy
Nella Iris Wendy
Freya Iris Wendy
Isabel Iris Wendy

Houseelf90 · 19/04/2023 19:42

Thank you so much everyone!!

@dwightschrutebeets my first thought there was that I wonder if the name will come back with the Wendy’s American diners popping up everywhere, and then I thought, I hope people aren’t naming their babies after a diner 🤣🙈

@goldenfoliage I think that’s the problem, our boy name flows very well, and none of the girl names seem to flow so well, now you’ve said it, that’s down to our middle names. But I think we have to keep them - one is a family member of my other half that died last year and one is a close family member of mine who died when I was young, so they both mean a lot to us both! It does make it more tricky to get a flowing name but it will be worth it if we can find a name that goes well and includes the middle names!
The short name rule comes from my other half as he is dyslexic, but I think once you learn to spell something like your child’s name, it probably sticks….I would hope, but then I’m not dyslexic so can’t say if it works like that or not!

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RosaSkye · 19/04/2023 19:47

Cab Iris be the first name? Iris Wendy X flows nicely in itself

otherwise I would probably want to avoid an “ee” ending so it wasn’t mirrored in Wendy.

Sophia Iris Wendy would be my choice I think

Beatrice Iris Wendy

Margot Iris Wendy

Hanna86 · 19/04/2023 20:00

I love the name Wendy

Hanna86 · 19/04/2023 20:02

I think for flow you're best off with a 3 syllable first name with those middle names, as contrast is nice. Cecily Iris Wendy as suggested above eg. flows well

Arewehumanorarewecupboards · 19/04/2023 20:08

I love Wendy!
Can’t you just have Iris Wendy or Wendy Iris?

Maybe Rose Wendy Iris?
Eva Iris Wendy?
Anna Iris Wendy?
Ellen Iris Wendy?