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Middle name for Stormi?

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astyr · 02/12/2022 07:08

Having a hard time choosing. I like Autumn and DH likes Rose. But not keen on either as it sounds like a description rather than a name. Open to any and all suggestions

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Butchyrestingface · 02/12/2022 10:31

Storm Door - very popular in Glasgow tenements so kid would be off to a head start.

lovelovelovebattenberg · 02/12/2022 10:32

I think Storm is fine, not what I would pick, but fine. (Ronan Keating's wife is Storm) The I on the end of "stormi" makes you appear as though you cannot spell Stormy.

Ellessdee · 02/12/2022 10:35

I know a Storm who gets called Stormy and was even Stormzy when she was little. Never given her name a thought. Her name is Storm Jerome Surname if that helps (her grandfather's name).

ErrolTheDragon · 02/12/2022 10:35

Stormi Rayne

Sibling Wintri Showers?

FettleOfKish · 02/12/2022 10:39

Just to add with regards the spelling, my DH's name is a common name with an uncommon spelling (it's a common spelling in his home country, but not where we live now).

At this stage he doesn't bother correcting anyone unless it's something that needs to be precise like banking, insurance, travel documents etc so his name is almost always spelt wrong unless the person writing it has seen it written down - and remembered. This includes cards from friends, appointments, work correspondence from people outside his own company etc etc etc.

Assuming your DD will eventually reach the same level of 'can't be arsed with this' as my DH then you may as well just spell it Stormy in the first place.

Emotionalsupportviper · 02/12/2022 10:43

WouldUShouldI · 02/12/2022 09:36

This thread is so sad. Fair enough if you don't like the name but this is a pregnant lady here and some of these comments are just fucking cruel and disgraceful. State you don't like the name or scroll even better just scroll on by there's just absolutely no need for such nastiness!!

But if people just "scroll by" the OP will get no idea of the strength of feeling in the population in general regarding the name. She will just be in a little echo chamber seconding he own opinion.

Even the jokey comments (eg "Wevva") give an idea of what the response of the world at large is going to be - and no matter how much she loves the name, gives her a chance to reflect on whether she should use it. If she goes ahead - fine; but she knows the likely reactions.

BTW - pregnancy is not an illness requiring sympathy.

Pipsquiggle · 02/12/2022 10:57

Just to add that sometimes having an 'y' or 'ie' on the first name and surname definitely doesn't go - my friend has this and she absolutely hates it.

e.g. Jenny Hardy vs Jen Hardy.

She thinks (& I agree) that the 2nd sounds better - 1 syllable first name, with a 2 syllable surname

Emotionalsupportviper · 02/12/2022 10:58

lifeinthehills · 02/12/2022 10:11

I guarantee all the blokes in my office would be making porn star jokes if they came across a Stormi. Probably to her face, given the chance.

Which they should be pulled up for. Unacceptable office behaviour. If done to her face, unacceptable harassment.

Agreed.

She'll still know that they are thinking it, though, and joking among themselves.

Zuma76 · 02/12/2022 10:58

BuryingAcorns · 02/12/2022 09:21

I don't agree. A public forum is a great (brave!) way to get a measure of what people really think about your choice of names. One of my DC has a name that people on here think is trendy and awful and will date. It's a family name and I thought it a classic. But I might have had second thoughts if I'd known how many people hate it. I know people who avoid saying my DC's name. It clearly makes them cringe.

Britain is a snobbish country. People do make judgements. And you want to avoid saddling your child with a name that makes people prejudge them.

I agree but there are ways of saying that without being abusive. Sitting behind a keyboard mocking someone’s choice is not particularly supportive. I’ve seen plenty of debates on here raising concerns about children being bullied via SM and here we are on a support network doing exactly the same. It’s not great role modelling.

Emotionalsupportviper · 02/12/2022 11:01

LakieLady · 02/12/2022 10:13

I once worked with a woman called Waverley. I thought it was lovely and asked where it was from. It's a river going through the Norfolk Broads - her parents loved the area.

I thought the Norfolk river was the Waveney. There's a Waveney district council, and I was sure it was named after the river.

There's a series of novels known as the Waverley novels, by Walter Scott iirc.

Mea Culpa - Waveney. I should have checked. It was definitely the river she was called after.

In my defence, this was 20-odd years ago, and my knowledge of geography is bollox.

Thank you for correcting me - it's stopped me from repeating this and showing my ignorance in front of people who know me. (Wouldn't be the first time 😄)

Emotionalsupportviper · 02/12/2022 11:05

FettleOfKish · 02/12/2022 10:29

That won't do much to dispel the Kardashian-mega-fan connotations, given that another one of them has a 'Reign'.

Princess Diana's stepmother was a "Raine".

SevernEleven · 02/12/2022 11:12

Saxe (saxe is a blue/grey colour)

Butchyrestingface · 02/12/2022 11:13

Emotionalsupportviper · 02/12/2022 11:05

Princess Diana's stepmother was a "Raine".

An Acid Raine as I recall.

Butchyrestingface · 02/12/2022 11:15

There's a series of novels known as the Waverley novels, by Walter Scott iirc.

Also a major rail station in Edinburgh.

Emotionalsupportviper · 02/12/2022 11:17

Butchyrestingface · 02/12/2022 11:13

An Acid Raine as I recall.

She was indeed!

😄

DogInATent · 02/12/2022 11:28

Stormi Regina
Siri, find me a suggestion someone that doesn't have experience of the playground.

JinglingXmasbells · 02/12/2022 11:30

@Alondra Maybe you are a nurse, maybe you're not. But even if you are, then you have clearly not sat in staffrooms (unless as a school nurse.)

So isn't it a bit odd that you come here telling posters most emphatically what is or not discussed amongst teachers, in schools, in staff rooms, when you have no actual experience of that? Astounding, really.

You have also accused a poster (and me) of lying, saying we are not, or have never been, teachers. Without seeing our CVs or knowing us personally, how can you say that?

B1993 · 02/12/2022 11:31

Alondra · 02/12/2022 10:26

I'm not a teacher, I'm a nurse. And I'm not coming strong against posters, just one particular poster calling themselves a teacher and making statements about a child and a name which are disgusting. I don't believe she/her is a teacher and said why.

I think 'disgusting' is a ridiculous exaggeration. 🙄 Sying that teachers (which is in fact my job), would eye roll a name like this and question the parents choice, is not in some way a despicable heinous crime, like you're suggested. The fact that you've come at me both personally and professionally is actually atrocious when you know nothing about me on either accounts. Honestly, the way you've come across is probably more disrespectful 🤷🏻‍♀️

To be fair though, it doesn't matter the profession. I think, as seen in general, the name is strongly disliked by most. Teachers, doctors receptionists, dog walkers, the neighbour next door are all likely to have an opinion on the name. I think it's more beneficial for OP to know that now and make an informed choice than to go along blindly with it and then find out later down the line when someone says something to her.

FettleOfKish · 02/12/2022 11:54

@Alondra So if you had a patient who introduced themselves as 'Windy Wednesday Smith' there's no part of you that would internally raise your eyebrows and think 'REALLY'?

You're a better person than I am if that's the case. Congrats.

MassiveSalad22 · 02/12/2022 12:01

actually really like the sound of Waverley but it’s on all the bins round here (Waverley council) so it’s a no from me 😄

Luredbyapomegranate · 02/12/2022 12:02

Zuma76 · 02/12/2022 10:58

I agree but there are ways of saying that without being abusive. Sitting behind a keyboard mocking someone’s choice is not particularly supportive. I’ve seen plenty of debates on here raising concerns about children being bullied via SM and here we are on a support network doing exactly the same. It’s not great role modelling.

TBF some people are being pretty funny

I agree others are being over abrasive, but I think bullying is pushing it - it’s just a bunch of frank opinions about one topic - it’s not undermining the OP as a person.

SleepingStandingUp · 02/12/2022 12:36

DrMadelineMaxwell · 02/12/2022 10:21

OP, you do need to think through the fact that you are not just naming a baby.

Stormi is cute, I suppose. Of course it makes me think Kardashian and 'no way' but what really needs to be considered is what happens when the cute baby grows up.

Stormi in infants school - cute.

Stormi in juniors - less cute but ok. I've taught a Storm before who was lovely.

But I've also taught children who have wanted to change their name by the time they were year 6 to be called by their 2nd name or a more formal version of their name because they don't like the cuteness and they feel they were growing up.

And then high school! High school is rough for kids with unusual names. My name is pretty unique and I was bullied for it. First day someone laughed at my name and although I like it now, I will never forget the embarrassment.

Then as an adult - would YOU want to be called a cutesy Stormi? Would you appreciate your name being Stormi if you were a teacher, policewoman, lawyer, ANYTHING?

Go for it as a middle name and choose to call your DD by that name if you really must, but give them a first name that they can grow into.

Plus your child will, like I was, be one of those who NEVER EVER sees their name on any personalised items you can buy that kids like.

Thing is, Storm really isn't that out there. There's no reason she can't be known as Storm when she's presiding in Court. We shouldn't be picking fro ma safe ksit of 10 names, we should be challenging the snobbish bias against names that we don't think upper and middle class kids have

FettleOfKish · 02/12/2022 13:03

MassiveSalad22 · 02/12/2022 12:01

actually really like the sound of Waverley but it’s on all the bins round here (Waverley council) so it’s a no from me 😄

It's a coach company round our way.

'Go the Waverley Way' 👀

LongLostTeacher · 02/12/2022 13:39

It’s a shame that the whole of mumsnet is becoming like AIBU.

As an ex teacher, I have to disagree with pp and say that most teachers wait to get to know your child before making comment on their personality. Honestly, some of the trickiest children I have taught have been called Jack, one of the most popular names out there. Not to say they were bad kids at all, just never had a straightforward Jack!

I think my favourite idea has been Stormi Jade, I think they go well together and sound right.

ZoyaTheDestroyer · 02/12/2022 14:20

Stormi isn’t really my cup of tea but if you are decided then Stormi Rose. Not only does it sound less meteorological but it also gives her a very traditional option if she ever decides to go by her middle name in the future.