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Archie for a girl?

102 replies

cluckinhell0 · 07/10/2022 18:53

Having second girl in December and just watched the Lazarus project and there is a character Archie (think shirt for Archana in her case)

Never met a female Archie but it's growing on me. But can't shake the fact she'll likely always be expected to turn up and be a boy unless it really catches on in popularity!

Thoughts?

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DaisyChristina · 07/10/2022 21:31

No

xprincessxjanetx · 07/10/2022 21:31

Absolutely not.

redbigbananafeet · 07/10/2022 21:34

Saying it's offensive to Asian to suggest it's not a suitable name for a non Asian girl is clutching at straws. Would you name a white British boy Binh? It's a very popular Vietnamese name.

Lilacsunflowers · 07/10/2022 21:42

Archana is a beautiful name. Archie is a cute nickname.

YourLipsMyLips · 07/10/2022 21:49

It's not even a nice name for a boy.

Lilacsunflowers · 07/10/2022 21:51

Archibald is awful for a boy!

Archana sounds pretty for a girl imo.

Luredbyapomegranate · 07/10/2022 23:42

It’s short for Archana for a girl, which is a Hindi name. You could use that, though some people would see it as cultural appropriation.

What you cannot do is just call her Archie, which is a hugely popular boy name.

You daughter has to live with it, so don’t chose it because you are trying to be different or cool, she won’t see it like that.

jewishmum · 07/10/2022 23:44

I wouldn't

ChildrenOfTheQuorn · 08/10/2022 08:17

I'd read it as you were hoping for a boy tbh.

Enko · 08/10/2022 09:57

cluckinhell0 · 07/10/2022 19:26

To all those brutal 'why would you do that to her?!' Pretty offensive to a lot of Asian families where it is a popular shortened name!

I think it's an intriguing name because it actually sounds very feminine as the shortened version more feminine than masculine and yet has been adopted mainly as a male name historically. If I were coming to it with no prior knowledge (or from a different culture) I think it does sound like a girls name.

Appreciate consensus is heavily on the No side! Grin

But the Asian families are not using Archie are they? They are using Archana (which I BTW think is fabulous) like many families in the UK use Alexandra and call their dd Alex or Georgina and call her Georgie

Personally I don't like Archie. I don't like it for a boy or a girl never have. Never known one who was unpleasant i just don't like it as a name.

Having grown up with a unisex name I wanted to avoid that.for my children. I hate it. Did as a child still do now as an adult. I would really not put a name more commonly used as a boys name to a girl or the other way around.

I have found it difficult to live with. Many computer programs are set to specific gender - this may have changed by the time your dd grows up- people expect a Mr. And sees me a clear female and it throws them. I had one memorable phone conversation where the woman at the end of the line insisted I HAD to be a boy as my me was a boy one
People are rude..

TheFreaksShallInheritTheEarth · 08/10/2022 10:30

Archie, lovely name for a girl. Just Louisa would be for her future brother.

KirstenBlest · 08/10/2022 10:41

But the Asian families are not using Archie are they?
They are.

mum2jakie · 08/10/2022 10:43

Libre2 · 07/10/2022 19:26

Do you know what, I absolutely love it for a girl. I think it’s brilliant. However, I may not be the best judge as when I was a teenager I always wanted Sydney as a girl’s name if I ever had a girl.

For full disclosure both my boy and girl children have very boring names.

go for it!

I always wanted a baby girl called Sydney as a teenager too!! Still think it sounds cute. I think Archie would grow on me but not sure I'd like to be saddled with the name personally.

2pinkginsplease · 08/10/2022 10:45

Please don’t do it.

my son has a name that in this country is typically a boys name however in another country it is sometimes used as a girls name. When he was in secondary school a teacher from that country wouldn’t believe that was his name as she expected a girl and made ds stand outside of class until she got another teacher to verify who he was! She thought he was taking the piss.

Floralnomad · 08/10/2022 10:46

If you are using it as a shortening and she has a proper name to use I can’t see it being an issue , as a stand alone actual name it is an issue .

toomuchlaundry · 08/10/2022 10:46

If you love it so much change your name to it, and see people's reactions to it

Lilacsunflowers · 08/10/2022 10:59

When he was in secondary school a teacher from that country wouldn’t believe that was his name as she expected a girl and made ds stand outside of class until she got another teacher to verify who he was!

Made to stand outside the class? Shock For having a 'female' name? That's a pretty harsh reaction.

Maireas · 08/10/2022 11:04

No.
For no other reason than there are so many already, it really is a very popular name. That and Teddy.
Although I suspect she'd be the only girl Archie in her class.

Maireas · 08/10/2022 11:06

2pinkginsplease · 08/10/2022 10:45

Please don’t do it.

my son has a name that in this country is typically a boys name however in another country it is sometimes used as a girls name. When he was in secondary school a teacher from that country wouldn’t believe that was his name as she expected a girl and made ds stand outside of class until she got another teacher to verify who he was! She thought he was taking the piss.

How many years ago was that?
All registers have photo ID.

girlmom21 · 08/10/2022 11:08

How many years ago was that?
All registers have photo ID.

Since when?

Maireas · 08/10/2022 11:11

girlmom21 · 08/10/2022 11:08

How many years ago was that?
All registers have photo ID.

Since when?

I'm trying to think.... quite a few years now. Both Sims and Bromcom systems.
I always look at the picture when I call the register, helps me learn names.

Snog · 08/10/2022 11:11

Quite a modern choice OP.
Identities are pretty fluid these days.
Gendered names could be consigned to history soon I'm sure.

Maireas · 08/10/2022 11:11

Happenchance · 07/10/2022 20:56

You could have Archie as a nn for Artemis.

Artie would be nicer.

Firecarrier · 08/10/2022 11:12

SalviaOfficinalis · 07/10/2022 19:13

Hmm, I wouldn’t. I was next to a little girl called James at the supermarket today, felt very weird.

Why would anyone do that to their daughter?!

genuinelyaskingforafriend · 08/10/2022 11:13

I'm surprised, but I actually quite like it for a girl!

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