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Girls names - help needed as baby is already here!

122 replies

Sunshinehouse · 16/02/2022 09:36

Hi there
Would love love love input and help!
My second D was born last Thursday and my husband and I are getting no where with names. I like strong, masculine female names, he likes more traditional girly names.

My favourite names: Dillon, Sidney, Margot, Riley, Rafa. His favourite names Isabella, Emilia, Katherine

We had agreed on Frances, Robyn, Leonie and potentially Emilia, but we know a few Emmes already and that means that nickname is taken. Other names I liked Riley, River, Leila, Suki, Sylvie, Adeline, Leila, Lila, Orla, and Margot, but DH not keen on many of these.

I wanted something that could be strong and powerful, I’m an Alex and love having a unisex name, and added complication is that DD2 looks like my father in law and I feel she needs a strong name to pull off her strong features!

All help welcome, really need to decide and update people asap

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Glitterygreen · 16/02/2022 10:09

Ah OP this is my dilemma too...I love more unisex names, and Robin, Rowan and Frankie are my absolute favourites for a girl, but DP hates them all and prefers a more feminine name.

Good luck with it. If she's semi-keen on Robyn I'd push for that, since you like it.

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 16/02/2022 10:09

Robyn is great though, I’d go with that.

Penvelopey · 16/02/2022 10:09

Robyn is great. Robby as a baby if you like. But it's a great strong name as she grows.

TwoBigNoisyBoys · 16/02/2022 10:10

@Sunshinehouse I know a little Frankie (full name Francesca) and she’s absolutely adorable! I think they ‘grow into’ their names anyway, and it’s a really beautiful name ☺️ so I’m sure it will suit her, both as a baby/little girl and the more ‘grown up’ Frances when she’s an adult.

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 16/02/2022 10:10

Robyn is a lovely name.

Others -

Blythe
Juno
Meg
Petra

Lilacsparkles · 16/02/2022 10:19

Robyn is great. But I like Margot too, Margot Isabella would be gorgeous!

WelliesWithHeels · 16/02/2022 10:19

Dulcie Isabella
Rory Belle

Fivebeanchilli · 16/02/2022 10:22

How about Rafaela /Rafaella with the nn Rafa?
I really dislike most of your names but I like Margot and Sylvie. Sylvie feels as though it could be a good compromise name?
Or what about
Tess
Harriet
Cara
Cassia
Freya
Nell

Dasher789 · 16/02/2022 10:23

Cameron was also what first sprung to mind.

Sloane
Jaime

BowerOfBramble · 16/02/2022 10:23

Love your suggestions @BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz

I was also going to say what about a Roberta (or even stick with Robyn) nickname Bobby/ie? I know one or two young Bobbies and it's a fab name. Also you can call her Bobby the Baby for now Grin

If you like Frankie I'd just go Frankie, you don't want to end up with a Fran you didn't want.

BowerOfBramble · 16/02/2022 10:24

Rory Gilmore (in the TV show) is short for Lorelai...

Leilala · 16/02/2022 10:30

Congratulations!

Love the name Margot.

You chose my DD name too Wink

How about;
Farah, Romily, Aimme (pronounced: em-ay), Delilah, isla, Iona, Briony, Tamsin

Good luck Grin

Bellex · 16/02/2022 10:31

Penelope with Nell or Penny as a nickname.
Meredith
Charlotte, Charlie for short
Daryl
Alba
Mila
Persephone, ‘Percy’
Lois

urrrgh46 · 16/02/2022 10:40

How about Roberta nn Bobby, Georgiana nn George or even Jaqueline nn Jack

urrrgh46 · 16/02/2022 10:40

Frances as middle name with any of them.

MojoJojo71 · 16/02/2022 10:51

How about Quinn?

Or maybe a ‘girly’ name with a more masculine shorter version?
Veronica ‘Ronnie’
Aurora ‘Rory’
Clementine ‘clem’

Luredbyapomegranate · 16/02/2022 11:29

Frances and Robin are both great, I'd go for one of them. Maybe Frances because you get the elegant full name and Frankie if you like a unisex nn. Robin I do prefer with the straight spelling.

Leonie (or Leonora) is also nice and gives you Leo.

Stick them in a hat?!

Other thoughts
Ffion
Arran
Catrin
Caitlin
Aislinn (Ash-lin)
Lois
Ines
Linos
Mirren
Stella
Aster
Aphra
Astra
Oona
Ramona
Cassia (Cassie)
Antonia (Toni)
Vivienne (Vivi)

Keladrythesaviour · 16/02/2022 11:34

Georgina - George for unisex nickname but a feminine name over all?

KirstenBlest · 16/02/2022 12:26

@wineosaurus4

What about Cameron/Camryn? Or Blaire?

I also do really like Margot & Orla xx

May or Browne?
Crayzeefrog · 16/02/2022 12:28

Samia (nn Sam)

GinAndTopic · 16/02/2022 12:35

I'm like you I like strong names for girls. My daughter is Claudia, not many around, gets lots of compliments and I still love it (she's an adult now)

Prettybubblesintheair · 16/02/2022 12:38

Dd might look like fil now but most babies look like little old men so that will more than likely change! I love Robyn, Margot and orla.

popcorndiva · 16/02/2022 12:41

I like Blair for a girl or Henrietta

BowerOfBramble · 16/02/2022 12:46

@KirstenBlest oi I already made that joke Grin

Blue4YOU · 16/02/2022 12:47

Roberta (Robbie/Bob etc)
Robina if Robyn (which I love) is out
Ramona
Thea
Theodora
Astrid
Jaqueline (Jack/Jackie)
Isadora
Nell
Mary (go a bit rogue?)
Francine (if Frances doesn’t work)
I know they aren’t all either sex names but are strong sounding to me and not girly