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Why are boys so hard? Help!

47 replies

KirstyT11 · 02/01/2022 20:55

This is our 2nd baby due in a couple of weeks. We have a little girl called eliza.

We can't seem to find a boys name We love. I feel like I've looked at thousands of names and none just feel right.

We don't like anything super popular like top 10, nothing too surname like or American sounding.

The few we like and can agree on currently are:

Elliot/Elliott (my preferred one)
Max (husbands preferred - I'm not sure)
Jasper (next door neighbour has called her cat this though 😭)
Owen

Anyone suggest anything that might jump out at me?

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wingingit33 · 02/01/2022 20:57

I can't help but I'm in the same boat. Having a boy next month after two very easy to name girls and I think I hate all boys names!

Matbest · 02/01/2022 21:08

My favourites are Jacob, Edward (Teddy), Benedict, Vincent, Eddison, Miles, Peter, Felix, Dylan, Jude

wingsofabird · 02/01/2022 21:09

Max is nice how about Miles?
Laurence?

MsFrog · 02/01/2022 21:10

Patrick?

toastofthetown · 02/01/2022 21:10

I wouldn't worry at all about your neighbours cat if it's a name you both like and agree on.

Evander
Gregor
Lucien
Rufus
Stellan

Passiveobserver · 02/01/2022 21:13

Really like Elliott, great name 😁

Passiveobserver · 02/01/2022 21:14

Smile that was supposed to be a smiley face!

DaisyWaldron · 02/01/2022 21:15

My boys' shortlist was:
Ambrose
Caspar
Clovis
Patrick
Kester/Christopher/Kit
Oisín
Alexander
Benedict
Sebastian

Footnote · 02/01/2022 21:15

Eliott is lovely but a bit similar to Eliza.
Rufus
Seth

DramaAlpaca · 02/01/2022 21:15

I like Owen. Not at all common and it sounds good with Eliza.

2022willbebetter · 02/01/2022 21:17

Ellis
Malachy
Liam
Sebastian
Magnus

Fixerupper500 · 02/01/2022 21:19

I’m in the same boat too, due second boy soon and I’m really struggling to find a name I love. I’ve only ever really liked the name Max, so naming first DS was easy.

I’m also finding it hard because everyone I know seems to have boys, so any name I like seems to be already taken.

I think Elliot is lovely, I love Max (biased) and I love Jasper. Sadly I can’t use Elliot or Jasper

My favourites are;
Felix
Miles
Oscar
Caspar
Jasper

Good luck!

PinkWaferBiscuit · 02/01/2022 21:19

Owen is lovely and flows nicely when said with Eliza, which doesn't actually matter in the grand scheme of things but is helpful when you say the names together a lot.

I agree with a previous poster I wouldn't use Elliott with Eliza they sound too similar.

lochmaree · 02/01/2022 21:23

we have an Alexander and if our 2nd is a boy, current favourite is Andrew.

I like Harris, Cameron and Callum too but DH doesn't like any of those.

Ilikecheeseontoast · 02/01/2022 21:23

Jacob
Joshua
Charlie
George

PAJ21 · 02/01/2022 21:28

Perhaps you will like:
Henry
Theodore
Miles
Jacob
Isaac
Jude
Toby/Tobias
Arthur

junebirthdaygirl · 02/01/2022 21:33

In lreland we spell Owen EOIN ..pronounced the same.
Prefer that spelling and it goes lovely with Eliza.

KirstyT11 · 02/01/2022 21:37

I have suggested Cameron and callum before too... hubby doesn't hate them. I quite like Cameron. I also like Toby but surname is a T and not sure on alliteration.

I also worried if elliot and eliza where to similar 🤔

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2022willbebetter · 02/01/2022 21:48

What about Campbell?

PinkButtercups · 02/01/2022 21:50

I have a Milo and a few people said 'I had a dog with that name' that's nice but it's not a dogs name. My mums cats are called Alfie, Daisy and Nico. They're not cat names.

If you like a name, just for for it! Grin

RosesAndHellebores · 02/01/2022 21:52

Edward
Magnus
Gulliver
Tristan
John
Arthur
Louis
Frederick
Gregory
Julian

ilovespinach · 02/01/2022 21:53

Joseph

Bouncer500 · 02/01/2022 21:56

I used to really like Elliot and am thankful I had girls and didn't get to use it as the name irritates the life out me now.
I like Owen the most out of your names.
How about Sean or Michael?

lavidaesuncarnival · 02/01/2022 21:58

Really like both Max and Owen with Eliza Smile

Kian
Jesse
Rory
Cosmo
Leander

littlebilliie · 02/01/2022 22:16

Peter
Tobias