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Help please! Harriette or Violetta?

56 replies

88joey88 · 19/10/2021 12:46

Help! We have a 2yr old named Beatrice Rose ‘Bea’ and we are struggling to choose a name for our second daughter due to be born in two weeks time.
Our last name is 3 syllables and ends in tine.

I love
Evangeline
Clementine - but these don’t sit well with our last name.
We also like
Harriette - Hatty
Violetta - Etta
Sylvie
Maeve
Maeva
Kitty
Felicity - Flick

Thoughts please 🙏🏼

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finallychangedmyusername · 19/10/2021 13:06

I like Harriet but not Harriette (not a spelling I recognise). Prefer Violet to Violetta which feels too frilly.

Of your choices, I really like Felicity and Sylvie.

I'd avoid Maeve and Maeva as these seem to be gaining in popularity. Evangeline would fast become an Eva or Evie and there's so many of those already. Kitty is nice, but only as a nickname for Katherine/Katharine/Catherine.

NannyR · 19/10/2021 13:10

I like Harriet and Kitty, I would go for a "proper" name like Kathryn or Caitlin and call them kitty as a pet name. I don't like the extra -te on Harriet at all.

Notgotanyidea · 19/10/2021 13:11

Evangeline very House of Elliot I like Ginny as a nn

KrispyKale · 19/10/2021 13:11

Harriet.

Dahliadelight · 19/10/2021 13:13

Henrietta. Hennie/Hettie/Etta

JellyTotCat · 19/10/2021 13:18

I like Violet and Harriet. Kitty short for Catherine

RaoulDufysCat · 19/10/2021 13:21

Harriet and Violet are way nicer than Harriette or Violetta. I also like Felicity from your list.

ToddlerMumma · 19/10/2021 13:21

Here was my list for my 2nd - we went with Tallulah!
⁃ Abigail
⁃ Chloe
⁃ Anastasia
⁃ Beatrix - trixy
⁃ Tabitha - Tabs
⁃ Madeleine
⁃ Genevieve
⁃ Isla
⁃ Daisy
⁃ Summer
⁃ Jemima - Mimi
⁃ Elsbeth - Elsie
⁃ Delilah - Ilah
⁃ Esther
⁃ Amelie
⁃ Willow
⁃ Maddison
⁃ Tallulah - Lula

Namechangedforthethousandthtim · 19/10/2021 13:35

I like Harriet. Harriette looks like a spelling mistake/unnecessarily flouncy and I don't like it at all. Violetta is nice. My favourite is Clementine.

ILoveShula · 19/10/2021 13:50

Harriet or Violet

TenThousandSpoons · 19/10/2021 13:51

Is Harriette pronounced differently to Harriet? Harriet is much nicer either way.

I like Etta on its own. Violetta is a bit of a mouthful. Or Violet - goes nicely with Beatrice but I think she’d end up with the nn “Vi”.
Felicity is lovely but not “Flick”.
Love Kitty as a nn for Katherine.

NannyR · 19/10/2021 13:56

In my head the - ette ending changes the pronunciation of Harriet, making it more like harry-ette , rather than harri-ut, with the u being a schwa sound, like in Helen.

JudgementalCactus · 19/10/2021 14:03

Either Harriet or Henriette. Harriette looks silly and misspelt.

LouLion · 19/10/2021 15:07

Evangeline - not keen
Clementine - quite like, but prob not with your surname
Harriette - no, it's Harriet, the other spelling looks odd. It's ok, bit horsey
Violetta - noooo, looks made up. Violet is lovely. Viola is also nice.
Sylvie - Sylvia is beautiful
Maeve - like
Maeva - nope
Kitty - too girly
Felicity - Flick - Felicity is nice, but most nn, e.g. flick, fizz, fliss etc are terrible

Verity, Lucy, Eleanor, Josephine, Florence, Cecilia, Eloise, Imogen?

zafferana · 19/10/2021 15:10

Harriet and Violet - both good.

Harriette and Violetta - yuk - I hate it when people add random letters to perfectly good names.

Whatwouldnanado · 19/10/2021 15:12

Stick to the conventional spellings otherwise the poor kid will spend her life explaining.
Verity, Lucy, Laura.

LetHimHaveIt · 19/10/2021 15:22

@zafferana

Harriet and Violet - both good.

Harriette and Violetta - yuk - I hate it when people add random letters to perfectly good names.

Well, they're not 'random letters', are they? What a strange assertion. They're completely legitimate alternative European spellings of those names: 'Violetta' is the lead character is Verdi's 'La traviata' and is still a popular name in Italy and S. America. 'Harriette' is how the name was spelled in this country until about a hundred years ago.

'Random' would be 'Harrietfguhp' or 'Violetdvkhe' 🙄

Blubells · 19/10/2021 22:06

Harriet.looks like the masculine form of Harriette.

I like Sylvie best

DramaAlpaca · 19/10/2021 22:49

I much prefer Harriet and Violet to OP's spellings.

Otherwise I like Felicity, but not Flick. Felicity goes nicely with Beatrice.

BubbleCoffee · 19/10/2021 22:53

Violetta Maeve.

mrsevangelina · 19/10/2021 23:34

I like Harriet but the Harriette spelling just looks wrong to me, too fussy.

I like Kitty too

BanditoShipman · 19/10/2021 23:39

Harriet or Violet, the extra letters just look really silly and try hard

lottiegarbanzo · 19/10/2021 23:41

Harriette - Hatty (Never seen this spelling. Harriet's ok)
Violetta - Etta (I like this, or Violette, also Letty)
Sylvie (lovely)
Maeve (ok)
Maeva (no)
Kitty (lovely but short for Katherine)
Felicity - Flick (yes, nice but maybe Fliss)

How about:
Camille / Camilla
Clarice
Mirabel

chipsandgin · 19/10/2021 23:42

Harriet (not Harriette as pp’s have said it looks like a spelling mistake and she’d probably not enjoy correcting people every day!).

I really like Etta as a name in itself but using it as a shortening of ‘Violetta’ rather than Henrietta is unusual, but not really in a good way, sorry OP!

Etta and Bea sound lovely together for sisters!

stormyweather274 · 19/10/2021 23:46

How about Syliva?