So my DD is due any day now and my name list gets amended weekly! So far I have shortlisted (in order)
Mila (mee-lah)
Alyssa
Elissia
Keira
Olivia (been on my list for years just the popularity puts me off)
I’m over (ish) how others will pronounce them and how anyone else will spell them
I have the same issues with my own name and it’s not scarred me for life or sent me insane yet 