Well, I'm a bit old to be choosing names now ( next baby in our family will be the child of either my dcs or dniece/nephews) but no, I didn't choose either my dm name or MIL name if we'd had girls. But, neither did we choose names from my grandparent's generation, which are the names that are popular now - George, Harry etc. Based on the names I see on children at the school where I work, I feel that there's a definite cycle and suspect that possibly children born now may be given names that were more popular in my mum's generation. Some are already creeping in - Ava, May,/Mae, Rose, Betty.