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Is this acceptable?

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SqueakyChicken · 24/05/2017 08:43

Okay, I'm going to change names here but please imagine a very similar situation.

My name is Christina but almost everyone day to day calls me Tina. I absolutely love a baby girl name and nothing else really interests me. The only problem is... it's Nina.

Is this acceptable? I can't decide whether people will people think I'm mad rhyming my name with my daughter's? Or, if no one uses mother and daughter's name together so it doesn't matter? Help!

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KindleBueno · 24/05/2017 08:45

If you want it go for it x

Rockaby · 24/05/2017 08:45

Honestly? No, I wouldn't do this. But then I dislike the name Nina, so possibly that is colouring my view a little.

Hamsolo · 24/05/2017 08:46

I wouldn't, personally, because I'd dislike people commenting on it constantly, as I think they would.

BertrandRussell · 24/05/2017 08:47

People will comment and be amused. And they'll forget which of you is which. You are a bit of a unit with your child for the first few years in a "Are Tina and Nina coming?" sort of way, so be prepared.....

Purpledaffodils · 24/05/2017 09:04

It's not something I would do personally but plenty do. If it's definitely the name for you then go for it.

17caterpillars1mouse · 24/05/2017 10:05

People do do it. I know a Kelly who has an Ellie. I do find it a bit weird though and wouldn't do it myself

Heratnumber7 · 24/05/2017 10:07

I know a Gemma who has a daughter Emma. Weird.

PotteringAlong · 24/05/2017 10:12

No. You can't call your daughter Nina if you're Tina. Well, you can but it sounds odd.

Sugarpiehoneyeye · 24/05/2017 10:14

Many people call their children after themselves, so I personally would.
Yes, you'll have similar names, but different initials. If you love the name, use it.

29Palms · 24/05/2017 10:16

I wouldn't worry about it at all.

Your daughter will be an individual. She will have a life of her own. Her name will be hers, and it won't be spoken with yours every time.

FeedTheSharkAndItWillBite · 24/05/2017 10:19

Why not?

Sons are often named after their fathers.

It's fine imo :)

Smudddle · 24/05/2017 10:21

I wouldn't worry about it but fyi I have a longish traditional name, the ending of which is "ina" and my close family and some of my friends have always called me nina as a nickname. Could that be an option? I personally like having multiple names for different parts of my life.

wigglesrock · 24/05/2017 12:38

I wouldn't worry about it at all. Nina is a beautiful name. You're only going to be introducing you both together as in "this is Tina and the baby is Nina" maybe at baby groups, friends and it wouldn't be said together that often after the child is about 4. It might be written down in a card but only when the baby is still at home, you're not going to be sending joint cards with a twenty year old. I have a short (5 letter) name with 3 vowels and my eldest daughter has a different 5 letter name with the same 3 vowels. All my dds names end in vowels - never has one person in actual real life mentioned this (and my mother had plenty to say about names). However on MN Grin names seem to take on an extra special significance. Go with what you love.

daisypond · 24/05/2017 14:06

It's fine. Your daughter is a separate person to you. It doesn't matter. Nina is a nice name.

BertrandRussell · 24/05/2017 14:18

But for the first 4 years people will smile and comment. It depends on how irritating you will find this.

WankersHacksandThieves · 24/05/2017 16:36

I know a Bethan and Gethin. I do find it a bit odd to be honest but after early childhood I guess no one would really notice too much.

MikeUniformMike · 24/05/2017 16:40

Bethan and Gethin don't rhyme. Beth and Geth do.

Nina's a beautiful name.

ItsAYesFromMe · 24/05/2017 16:44

I know a Kelly who's daughter is Ellie too. No one ever mentions it.
Doesn't whatsername 'I've got a million kids' Radford have two kids that rhyme?
Millie and Tillie or something similar.

MissCookiee · 24/05/2017 16:49

It's your chosen name for your baby. No one can tell you otherwise. It's a beautiful name and if it feels right for your dd then go for it Smile

WankersHacksandThieves · 24/05/2017 17:33

Bethan and Gethin don't rhyme.

Depends on the accent maybe because they are an exact match in mine Confused

OlennasWimple · 24/05/2017 17:36

It's still more imaginative than George Foreman... But personally I wouldn't.

temporarilyjerry · 24/05/2017 17:43

I know Tia and her daughter Leah. I think it's odd. Hmm

Nina is a great name, though, so don't let it put you off. Grin

Beth-an, Geth-in - no, they don't rhyme. Wink

MikeUniformMike · 24/05/2017 17:47

Depending on the accent Francois and Lois might rhyme.

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