Thought I had decided, but I'm second guessing myself again 
To go with ds Eli.
I know that Asa is used as a girls name in Sweden (well think its Sweden
) This does NOT BOTHER us at all, as far as we are concerned its an Old Testament biblical boys name 
I know some people think Arlo is of the moment this does NOT BOTHER us either, we are in Ireland and its unheard of here really.
So please don't let either of these things sway you either way 
Girls name is sorted, she will be Jemima.