Hello,
Just want to talk to someone. I had last monday my detailed scan where they told me I had low Paap-a hormone and due to it baby is small, head measured outside the scale to the small side.
Went for another scan yesterday and size was good however I am 22 weeks and they said it looks like it's 21 wks by the size. They did ask about downs test, but these came back as good, 1:3500. On top of that start looking at the heart and found a small hole, tomorrow have another scan with cardiologist to confirm if it is VSD - Ventricual septal defect. They also said probably I will need amnio to rule out downs or other syndromes.
We are at a loss. Staying at home untill tomorrow as can't bear anyone asking at work how the scan went.
Anyone with similar issues? We are hoping for the best but getting ready for the worst. We do have a 5 year old which is healthy and waiting for the baby sister so much.
How to deal with everyone asking around? My mum is saying not to say anything to anyone, but I feel if I say how it is I do not carry all the stress alone, ir helps out to talk.