to be pissed off at dh for this comment?

[mosschops30]

me and dh been at each others throats all weekend for some reason.
We are supposed to be going away this weekend for 2 nights as my birthday treat, although this has now been downgraded to one night (hopefully if we can get a sitter) as my IL's have been delayed coming back from hols.

He rings me just now to say that he'd like to try and get back early sunday so he can go windsurfing in the afternoon
FFS is it worth it, we wont go now until saturday afternoon and then he wants to be back sunday morning!!!!!!

I was so angry I made some childish comment about the seeing the windsurfing girls down there, who have miraculously appeared on his FB friends lately.

Tosser!!!!!!

YANBU, I'd be seriously pissed off as well. If he can't be arsed to do it properly then I'd tell him to stick it up his arse, and possibly never ever speak to him again.

YANBU!

Men are all tossers!!

rockbird thats basically what I said. Why bother?

YANBU.

tell him that is fine he can go windsurfing aslong as he arranges another two night break away, arranges babysitters etc all himself.

YANBU.

I'd be telling him not to bother comeing with me and then i'd go for two night anyway.

Yanbu for sure.

That sucks YANBU -

YANBU, he is being a selfish twat and if it were me I wouldn't be going, well, actually I would, I would go for the original 2 nights and leave him at home with the children!

YANBU
If he wants to get back so early maybe you should go for the two nights, take a friend and he can babysit

YANBU

Nights away like that should be special, not rushed, especially birthday trips!

I'd probably go down the passive agressive route of "well, I was really looking forward to having a couple of days with you, just the two of us, but if you'd rather go off windsurfing than enjoy time alone with me then I won't stop you. I wouldn't want you to be with me if you'd rather be somewhere else."

But I can be bitchy like that

The sensible grown up in me advises that you talk to him and tell him how you feel without the side order of guilt.

(but the bitch in me says do the first thing )

YANBU. What utter nobbery.

Call his bluff and say you'd love to go windsurfing with him!!!!

Snap his surf board in half.

YANBU

I think he is being mean.

throw his surfboard on the barbie

then kill him

I'm with Hecate on the passive-aggressive thing, it's evil but it works (usually)

Why are these girls on his fb?

I'm with AnyFucker! YANBU that so selfish and inconsiderate. Tell him exactly how hurt you are and cancel his fb account

I agree with stray go with a friend

What a pricktoid!

Passive aggressive all the way or just go for it & tell him he's an inconsiderate selfish dick.

V.angry for you!

i would also go for the 2 nights without him