to be pissed off at dh for this comment?

[mosschops30]

me and dh been at each others throats all weekend for some reason.
We are supposed to be going away this weekend for 2 nights as my birthday treat, although this has now been downgraded to one night (hopefully if we can get a sitter) as my IL's have been delayed coming back from hols.

He rings me just now to say that he'd like to try and get back early sunday so he can go windsurfing in the afternoon
FFS is it worth it, we wont go now until saturday afternoon and then he wants to be back sunday morning!!!!!!

I was so angry I made some childish comment about the seeing the windsurfing girls down there, who have miraculously appeared on his FB friends lately.

Tosser!!!!!!

It would be a case of Mitts and Pads on and Into the Back Garden in the Shodan household if DH did that to me.

Your DH is a nob.

I can hardly steal his card and disappear for 2 days, thats not really very practical.

Cancel his FB account should he be allowed to cancel mine then because I have men on it he doesnt know? Lets be fair if he's gonna have an affair he doesnt need FB to do it. Im not bothered about it I was just being childish

We are not speaking now and I am furious with him. As usual he threw in my face the fact that I only work 24 hours and he works full time and that he had to cook dinner TWICE last week
Pathetic!

sounds like he doesn't want to go away.

cross at him for you moss
hopefully he'll reconsider now hes seen how cross you are?
maybe suggest rearranging whole weekend for a time that you will defiantly have childcare or suggest if he wants to go windsurfing so badly that he treats you and a friend to the night away.

well it was his idea not mine.
I cant imagine us going away with the way I feel at the moment I am so angry with him.
Loads of other issues came out in last nights argument (the 24 hours thing for a start).
Sometimes he is the most wonderful husband I could wish for and other times its like being married to a caveman!

That is very knob jockey behaviour on his part.

There are 2 ways to go with this, I reckon:

1: Stay pissy at each other and don't bother going

2; Remember how short life really is; go away together, have a really massive showdown followed by shagging til the cows come home. Usually takes the tension away somewhat..

What catbus said.

YANBU.

mosschops - how are you? Did you get your weekend away?