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to think dh is showing signs of very dodgy character traits `?

156 replies

estuardo · 24/06/2010 03:12

Tonight got text from friend (male ) in midst of nervous breakdown.. Had dinner with kids them went to visit him ( I am travelling GP)

He lives nearby and suggested we meet.he has not called

Dress like Barb"S

OP posts:
tabouleh · 25/06/2010 14:36

OP's best friend is a GP - see this thread

estuardo Wed 12-May-10 16:33:37
"thinker my best friend is a GP"...

Dollytwat · 25/06/2010 14:43

is this the actual text message that the OP got I wonder? It's HER dh that's being asked to dress like Barb's

HouseofCrazy · 25/06/2010 14:46

Have we put a call out for the OP with a link? Has she been seen today? Or is she too embarrased from PIU (posting under the influence)??

tortoiseonthehalfshell · 25/06/2010 14:50

I am giggling like a loon at this thread.

LittleWhiteWolf · 25/06/2010 14:55

This makes my brain hurt...

WillowM2B · 25/06/2010 14:59

Ooooh HalfTermHero your version of possible events sounds more likely than all the other nutters posters who have attempted to decipher the OP

StripeyMoon · 25/06/2010 15:08

where is the op???

MrsMeow · 25/06/2010 16:54

This is just so strange, I feel like I'm in a parallel universe!

OP, I hope you're ok, and Barb gets her dress back.

HopeForTheBestExpectTheWorst · 25/06/2010 21:20

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This has been withdrawn on request of the poster.

estuardo · 25/06/2010 22:11

"If estuardo seems normal elsewhere, and given that she posted at 3.12am, then I'm coming round to the dream/sleep-posting theory. She probably has no idea. Soon she'll click on Threads I'm On and think WTF?"

ten out of ten

That is exactly what happened.

There are threads of truth in the post but it is probably too boring to explain

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Dollytwat · 25/06/2010 22:13

please estuardo, please explain, we're desperate to know

IslingtonDi · 25/06/2010 22:19

Yes! What???

TootaLaFruit · 25/06/2010 22:23

We NEED to know. We've all been on this journey together. Do the right thing, bring it to an end.

piratecat · 25/06/2010 22:30

drops glass....

you're back!, please tell even if it isn't true/exciting/crazy.

we need to know .

pumpupthevolume · 25/06/2010 22:53

NOT BORING!!!! PLEASE TELL US OR I WILL EXPLODE! [footstamping tantrum emoticon]

PixieOnaLeaf · 25/06/2010 22:57

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QOD · 25/06/2010 23:00

oh tell tell!

HousewifeOfOrangeCounty · 25/06/2010 23:02

oooh me too

QSincognitoErgoSum · 25/06/2010 23:06

There is a chance that not even Estuardo knows what she was thinking at the time of posting.

catinboots · 25/06/2010 23:19

Just tell us about Barb"s dress

estuardo · 25/06/2010 23:22

ok here goes.
Thread title accurate.
I am part time( locums) GP with an interest in mental illness following personal experience.

me and husband good friends with another couple .LET'S call them Hank and Lucile.

Lucile contacted me last week to tell me Hank had had a bit of a breakdown and she thought he might contact me as he thought I might understand, and would that be ok.
I said of course, and told my husband about it.

Last night I checked my phone at ten pm - missed call and several texts from Hank asking if I would come round. I phoned and asked was it too late, he said no please come.

They live 3 doors down. I went round, Lucile met me at the door and said so glad you are here , sorry to drag you out , etc etc. Not a problem.
Hank in a state. We talked/cried/laughed till 4 am. He is in a very dark place.

Back home I was surprised my husband was still up. I said hello love give me a hug, I need one.

He glowered at me and said "why should I?" and went to bed.
That must be when I posted on MN.
I HAVE NO MEMORY OF DOING SO

in the morning my h apologised.

I would still value your comments.

I do not know anyone called Barb

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Mumcentreplus · 25/06/2010 23:34

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thumbwitch · 25/06/2010 23:36

Cor! WEll I'm glad you came back to clarify but still no idea where the Barb"s came from?

What a pity!

So - your H was arsey because you were out until 4am, despite him knowing why and knowing that you had gone from a professional concern? WTF did he think was going on?

Or was he just arsey because you didn't break off in the middle of sorting out this friend to say "hang on I'll just phone my H to let him know this could take a while", which could have been rather destructive at the time?

I'm glad he apologised - but he could have done with explaining why he was an arse at the time!

Katisha · 25/06/2010 23:37

Well I don't think there's too much to worry re the dodgy character traits. He was pissed off that you had been out till 3 or 4am and was waiting up for you.
Then in the cold light of day he realised he had Been Unreasonable.
Unless there is more to this than you are saying I wouldn't worry.

estuardo · 25/06/2010 23:44

thumbwitch and Katisha, thanks. I think you are both exactly right.

The Barb worries me a little

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