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Original poster

to not want to have sex without a vibraring?

39 replies

zinfandela · 26/05/2010 21:31

have namechanged for this...

A friend bought us/me one a year or so ago. We have kept them in supply ever since. DP is just as keen as me. However, the past few times we haven't been able to find one (keep them dotted about in hidden corners out of reach of curious DCs ). The sex has been so monotonous I'd rather do it on my own !

So am I an addict or is this normal after a few years of monotony monogamy/ 2 DCs?

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TheBreastmilksOnMe · 26/05/2010 21:32

Never used one, you'll have to explain (i'm innocent)

Kupugani · 26/05/2010 21:34

Can't advise, but err.. what kind of friend buys you that kind of present???

OnEdge · 26/05/2010 21:37

sounds good to me, googling it as we speak..............

Original poster
zinfandela · 26/05/2010 21:37

www.youtube.com/watch?v=r9MZ0btfg3s&NR=1

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bumpsnowjustplump · 26/05/2010 21:37

what the deelio is a vibraring?

secunda · 26/05/2010 21:38

I don't think you should need to rely on a gadget to make sex good. Sounds like you might be a bit 'addicted' to it! Maybe you should try doing without it for a bit and (sounds a bit cheesy) try to connect with DH rather than focusing as much on the physical stimulation

ApocalypseCheese · 26/05/2010 21:38

Love honey sell them for £1.99 free p+p. Not that I ever go on love honey or anyfink

Breast milk a 'friend' told me she hit the ceiling when she used one .

TiggyD · 26/05/2010 21:40

Won't a vibrating ring make your finger sore?

TheBreastmilksOnMe · 26/05/2010 21:40

A friend, ApocalypseCheese, really?

ApocalypseCheese · 26/05/2010 21:47

yes... It dosent go on your finger, the man wears it on his penis and it has a vibrating bump on it which presses against the clitoris.

Or so i'm told anyways

TheBreastmilksOnMe · 26/05/2010 21:51

Ahhh. I see. You're very well-informed (by your friend) I must say!

ATinofBiscuits · 26/05/2010 21:57

I think there is nothing wrong, if it gives you pleasure then enjoy! You don't need to do without it if you can afford it your DP is happy with wearing, it's no one's business.

IMHO you are not addicted you know what you like, and that is to orgasm when you have sex.

FanjolinaJolie · 26/05/2010 21:58

I can sympathise as I am particularly fond of AS Blue Dolphin vibrating ring

But I'd say not to use it every time as you will no doubt make yourself think that you don't enjoy sex without it.

Why not try something else, like some new sexy lingerie or a position you haven't tried before?

RumourOfAHurricane · 26/05/2010 22:01

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mrspir8 · 26/05/2010 22:04

"what happens if the man wears two cock rings?

just mildly curious"

one up, one down?

Sounds intriguing!

TrillianAstra · 26/05/2010 22:12

How would you feel if DH/DP said that sex was "so monotonous I'd rather do it on my own" without some toy or another?

TrillianAstra · 26/05/2010 22:12

How would you feel if DH/DP said that sex was "so monotonous I'd rather do it on my own" without some toy or another?

TiggyD · 26/05/2010 22:17

You could team it up with vibrating nipple clamps and butt plug.

You end up vibrating off the bed, down the hall and onto the street!

Just13moreyearstogo · 26/05/2010 22:32

Developing a vivid fantasy life is the best antidote to monotonous monogamy.

Original poster
zinfandela · 26/05/2010 22:46

Trillian- my DP is a bit like one of those old dogs who just isn't interested in fetching a ball anymore.

Just 13- I've tried, DP's very 'vanilla' unfortunately

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sunshine2010 · 27/05/2010 08:07

Thats totally normal. We all have things we like when in bed and its just cause its rubbing your clit and most positions dont do that. I orgasm everytime so I always want to use fingers/toys as well and dont see anything wrong with it. It always makes me want loads of sex even though I have young kids so my husband isnt complaining! Enjoy yourself

pjmama · 27/05/2010 08:14

sunshine - show off!!

biddysmama · 27/05/2010 10:43

we used them a couple of times... dp says he could fill a bucket using on of those... dunno what that says about me

mummag · 27/05/2010 10:53

biddy wot does that mean, really am not taking the piss... just mystified

cupcakesandbunting · 27/05/2010 10:55

Ladies, please!

You'll end up on the front page of the Daily Mail again with this kind of chit-chat. Mummys don't do sex