to not want to have sex without a vibraring?

[zinfandela]

have namechanged for this...

A friend bought us/me one a year or so ago. We have kept them in supply ever since. DP is just as keen as me. However, the past few times we haven't been able to find one (keep them dotted about in hidden corners out of reach of curious DCs ). The sex has been so monotonous I'd rather do it on my own !

So am I an addict or is this normal after a few years of monotony monogamy/ 2 DCs?

If you think the piddly little disposable ones are good, have a try of the Lovehoney one with the multi speed, heavy duty bullet. They go around the balls as well and stay in place better.

You can get finger and tongue vibrators too.

It's a shame that sex has become boring for you Zin, just because he's very vanilla doesn't mean you can't have great sex.

Sounds great, think I will buy one then get a partner.

What does it matter if you are addicted to them as long as your DP is happy. The amount of times I've had a vibrator knocked away at a crucial moment by a jealous guy !!!

Does it do anything for him as well?

The good ones give a bigger, harder, more sensitive erection and can help them last longer. The cheapo ones are too stretchy according to DH and the bullets are too buzzy for me.
The one I mentioned has a removable bullet that is very powerful and can be used without the ring, great for teasing.

it... erm.... makes him ejaculate much more than usual....

oh god, sorry i made you blush there, but honestly didnt understand, however it now sounds like a good thing............ have never tried one myself, beginning to think i am the only woman left in the world that hasnt.

Just watched the youtube clip, think I might one although dh doesn't need anything to make him last longer! It might sound great, but sometimes I go numb and start thinking aboout other things - like 'hurry up'

www.summersextoys.co.uk sell them for £1.95. You are not being unreasonable it is a fact of life this is how womans bodies respond best. I don't think your DP will be complaining.

Biddysmama, I can't say I've noticed more volume.

Haven't used ours for a few months, I'll have to check the batteries and test it out .

I don't think you are addicted, it just spices sex up every now and then, for me an guarantees that I will hit the big O dp loves it too

Will be ordering one and keeping it in my drawer in anticipation . Waves to PMGP.

hiya eve, a very good idea eve, "you're are worth it"

I don't think it's a good idea to use it every time, I think it means you're so used to using it that you've become desensitized to non vibrating sensations. Try using it only occasionally.

If it was the only way I could have an orgasm, I'd definitely use it every time, why the hell not?
some women can only come with vibrations, or it takes so damn long without that it's not practical.
If you can orgasm with or without one, you won't get desensitised, unless you're using it 10 times a day.

Why would one of these devices make him ejaculate more? Is it more explosive? Out with a bang not a dribble..?