Brief context...
I met up with some old friends I've known since school (we left school about 15 years ago).
As teenagers I suppose we used to smoke dope a bit, me less than others, was never that keen on it but didn't have a problem if other people chose to do it.
We all met up in a pub, we've stayed in touch but are scattered around the country so I don't see them often.
We were sitting in the (heated)garden of the pub and one of them decided to roll and smoke a big fat spliff. The garden was full of people, bar staff in and out collecting glasses.
I asked my friend not to smoke it nex tto me, it made me really comfortable him doing it in public, plus he knows I work for the police now and I didn't exactly want to be involved if someone called the police (I'm not a police officer, by the way).
Anyway, he refused and sat there blatantly smoking it so I ended up moving inside to another part of the pub. One friend came in to keep me company and the rest just sat with him and acted as though I was over-reacting.
As I say, I don't much care if people smoke dope, but I just think he could have been more considerate.
AIBU?
(disclaimer - I had no idea he was likely to do that, having not seen him for years)