Porn

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Am I being unreasonable for getting upset that my husband keeps looking at porn?

absinthe my husband doesnt want to watch a bit of porn with a top gear mag thanks.....I sound terrified...yes you are quite right I am terrified that I have 3 daughters and terrified that they could end up being with men like your husband...it bludy terrifies me.....and for your info Im not intrested in the industry we managed very very well thanks without the use of porn...thats prob why we have a very successful long and loving relationship without the need of porn or to copy out what they do....we use OUR own imagination!!!!

that was meant to say 'garages are for cars and tools'

You lot are unbelievable, hypocrytical and mean.

The comments made about absinthe on the thread about her daughters teachers are horrible. To personally bring her daughter into it, in my opinion is wrong and crossing the line.

Especially those of you who bang on all the time about 'thread about a thread', so that's ok as long as it's you making the point? But if anybody else does, it's 'bad form'.

And it's ok for you all to be entitled to an opinion, but if anybody else does they are indecent and you are within your rights to make personal attacks and vulgar comments about somebodys daughter?

The reason you lot are 'big names' around here, is because you clearly bully down everyone with an opinion other than your own, and remind them of it on every other thread.

There you go - cross references to yet another thread and this time my dh is in the firing line. For the record, I said on the aforementioned thread that we have a blissfully happy family life and are pretty much living the dream so I sincerely apologise to anyone who feels happy imagining that I am a "sad", "pathetic" or suck in a crap marriage . My husband tells everyone that he is absolutely infatuated with me and treats me like a queen - we rarely fall out and I often have to pinch myself to check it is all true. I never always had it so good - my parents had a realistic relationship rather than a failytale marriage and I was preyed upon by an older man when I was a teenager and managed to fight him off; otherwise, I could have ended up as Linda Lovelace given the sort of things he did for a living.

I look at more porn than my dh (and even then hardly ever) - it is a good learning tool and keeps me at the top of my game so to speak. I think it would be fine if my daughter did so too as an adult as long as it is in moderation.

It is possible that a lot of posters have turned into second-life pudes having collected too many notches on their bedposts - infact, I do remember a thread a few weeks ago which pretty much confirms this is the case for some of you.

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You are right MrsMontague - for all those people who imagine that MN is like a virtual coffee morning, if they ever have the displeasure of reading such threads then they would know that it can feel like wandering onto a sink estate and encountering some toilet-mouthed chavvy girls. Next thing you know they have texted their friends and you are up against a whole girl-gang. You should not be worrying about my daughters but your own (unless they are out doing pretty much what I just described in RL).

Now now, aren't we all getting a little too personal? It is impossible for any of us to know what goes on in each other's relationships?

'It is possible that a lot of posters have turned into second-life pudes having collected too many notches on their bedposts - infact, I do remember a thread a few weeks ago which pretty much confirms this is the case for some of you. '

There you go again absinthe...

Oh and for the record I was a virgin when I met my DH now what? must be frigid?..in experienced?..grow -up...stop making pathetic arguements to justify your lifestyle love..

I tend to keep on top of the game by thinking outside the box...not watching it..

I do it for myself, I enjoy it very much, thank you

'I could have ended up as Linda Lovelace given the sort of things he did for a living.'

and so you escaped that mans clutches..you think everyone he preyed upon did?...probably not they appear in the porn films you actively enjoy my dear...but I suppose so long as its not you...then its fine right?..

I haven't brought up my DCs to work in the porn industry! It makes me cross that many of those watching it will be wanting their own DCs to go to university and get good jobs, but they couldn't care less about exploiting other people's children. Many of those being exploited have had the worst start in life and need extra nurturing, not kicked when they are down to titilate someone who would be horrified if it was their own DD or DS. Using people because you have the money is horrible. (If they have chosen it fine- but many have come from an abusive background or have a drug problem to feed and I doubt whether people find out or even care enough to find out first).

Dittany - too many is subjective obviously - but it has obviously been too many for some posters by giving them hang ups about the sexual choices of others. I don't go around branding them boring in bed, frigid etc.

I was a virgin too when I met dh (despite the psychological damage I suffered by listening to an old, stoned pervert for some time) - that was important to dh too

"Too many notches", hahahaha.....

Is one man for the whole of my life a notch too many then abs?

How don't you realise that you are sounding like an absolute idiot?

Porn is a good learning tool eh? Yes, 'cos it's so realistic.
That's the best joke of the week, if only it were funny.

and for the record, I said on the first page of this horrid thread, that those people with teenage daughters might do well to think a bit more carefully before they say the widespread use of porn is harmless

you watch porn to stay at the top of your game ? < scrubs really below-the-belt comment from screen >

oh dear

what exactly is it you think you learn from, at best faked, at worst coerced degradation of women ?

YouPorn and stuff like it, well it's just ordinary people innit ?

I don't need to see Mrs Jones from no.13 down the road, with her shaved fanny giving her partner yet another blow job, do I ?

or the girls from down the chipshop getting 7 shades of spunked and lovin' it

I would never have got Tantric from written descriptions alone

i mentioned her in a derogatory context

Oh well, gotta go (hairdresser's arrived) - just when it was getting interesting. Back soon