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To be annoyed that someone I know has described herself to someone else I know as a friend of mine, when actually I really don't like her?

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bibbitybobbitysantahat · 16/12/2009 21:11

Come and laugh at me if you like but I am pissed off about this. Its hard to describe:

I know someone very vaguely but like her and think she is cool. Recently she has met an acquaintance of mine and they will be seeing a lot more of each other as they will be working together. So the woman I like and think is cool says to me today "I met R today, she said she is a friend of yours, you know she is coming to work here don't you?"

Well, R is no friend of mine, I really don't like her at all, actually. We have mutual friends and we go out in a group sometimes, but I don't even have her mobile number, I would never socialise with her were it not for this group connection. I think its very odd that she described herself as a friend of mine.

So, now, if cool likeable woman finds out that R is as much of a pita as I think she is, then she will mebbe think blimey, bibbity's a bit of an odd one, being friends with this loon.

Not much I can do about it but, still, fuckkit, I am annoyed.

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TisTheSeasonToBeHully · 17/12/2009 17:17

You have to kill them both. Drastic, but effective.

CarryOnDancing · 17/12/2009 17:19

Boobies Willies Poo Shag Never a more appropriate time!

Me and Bibbity are bestest friends, one I saw her bum and everything. She said we will be best friends forever...as long as I don't tell anyone!

Sorry to break this but I just saw COOL and PITA at Brownies and they had matching friendship bracelets on! Pretty sure I heard COOL say you smell of wee and eat your bogeys?!

bibbitybobbitysantahat · 17/12/2009 17:21

Extra large gold star for you too then cherub. Big black skull and crossbones for every last one of you who disagreed with me.

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TisTheSeasonToBeHully · 17/12/2009 17:22

Interestingly, I do know exactly what you mean but would rather eat my own eyeballs than ever admit it, let alone post it on a forum....

MadameDefarge · 17/12/2009 17:23

oi, bibs, shouldn't you be off to your therapy session to deal with your ishoos?

TisTheSeasonToBeHully · 17/12/2009 17:24

I think you'll find it's my star, and no one likes you they are all pretending.

MadameDefarge · 17/12/2009 17:29
TisTheSeasonToBeHully · 17/12/2009 17:31

Yeah but yous got knitting needles, innit.

MintyCandyCane · 17/12/2009 17:31

Hully fancy a snog behind the bikesheds.

MadameDefarge · 17/12/2009 17:32

Aii. An' my sharp friend Guilly at my side.

QandA · 17/12/2009 17:33

And I want to know where my gold star is? I defended you well before your gang came along and 'got your back'

TisTheSeasonToBeHully · 17/12/2009 17:33

Minty - go get the lovely fish on sticks.

daftpunk · 17/12/2009 17:34

oh...so this was a "joke"...?

ha ha ha ha ....absolutely hilarious....you really are wasted on here...

MintyCandyCane · 17/12/2009 17:35

ok, i do so want the fish on sticks [runs off panting in enthusiasm]

MintyCandyCane · 17/12/2009 17:35

ok, i do so want the fish on sticks [runs off panting in enthusiasm]

MintyCandyCane · 17/12/2009 17:35

twice

MadameDefarge · 17/12/2009 17:36

oh DP, not so much a joke, more a less than serious AIBU.

Where do the grown ups hang out?

bibbitybobbitysantahat · 17/12/2009 17:37

No no no no no no no Q&A. Am running after you with the big gold star. Yes, you did, when all about me were pouring scorn. What a fabulous individual you are .

Also gold star for the very marvellous Flight and anyone else who said anything nice about me.

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claw3 · 17/12/2009 17:38

Points and laughs, bibbity is friends with the uncool woman, bibbity is friends with the uncool woman.

ChatterClausIsComingToTown · 17/12/2009 17:40
Biscuit
daftpunk · 17/12/2009 17:51

MD...i would list my "cool" mumsnetters..y'know, the ones whose posts i always read..(if i'm here and see them)...but i fear i may embarrass them...having daftpunk as a fan is not always welcome...

i like posters who actually say something..iykwim...

MadameDefarge · 17/12/2009 17:58

Yeah, but you still love ME, right, right? (even if I am not always grown up?)

daftpunk · 17/12/2009 18:12

i'll always love you MD....

you love me for who i am...you don't care that i can't spell and have never got the hang of apostrophies....

that's real love...you can't fight that..

MadameDefarge · 17/12/2009 18:31

Excellent, my dear .

junkcollector · 17/12/2009 19:28

YANBU for thinking it, just honest. I bet everyone does this secretly and everyone is saying they don't cos it does sound a bit childish.

YABU and brave for asking everyone on AIBU. This is exactly the sort of thing I would secretly think but NEVER EVER say cos people think I'm a nice person but deep deep down secretly I'm not!

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