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AIBU?

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to despise the parents with the horriable horriable children

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bogie · 23/11/2009 15:35

That don't belive in any form of discipline?

There is a child who ds(4) goes to a football club with who is just the most vile little boy I have ever met.
Disrespectful to his mum, friends, any other adults he feels like and his mum does nothing.
The boy is 4-5 he calls my ds(and all the other children there) nasty names he kicked ds off a climing frame and when I said to him 'that wasn't kind was it?' he just screamed in my face.
Now I don't expect his mum to smack him but I do think he needs to be pulled up about things my ds is no angel but if he is rude or nasty he will be pulled up about it and made to apologize right away.
No if it was a one off then fair enough but this is happening week in week out and she just seem's to think it is fine.
So aibu to think that parents should take responsability for there dc's actions and not let them ruin things for everyone else?

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mummygirl · 23/11/2009 21:20

sas, it takes a lot to offend me, but calling me unprofessional is really not going down well...

RumourOfAHurricane · 23/11/2009 21:21

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madamearcati · 23/11/2009 21:25

YAB a bit U
You really don't know anything about this boy who you only see at football club.I can't help thinking he has some sort of SN.Perhaps his behaviour is actually improved from what it was and his parents have been told to focus only on violent stuff and ignore verbal stuff for instance.he sounds very very difficult to live with and maybe his parents deserve some sympathy rather than condemnation.

ImSoNotTelling · 23/11/2009 21:27

at this thread. Haven't seen anything this nasty for a long while. Really appalled by some of the more personal comments.

Hullygully · 23/11/2009 21:28

NONE of the comments are to the OP; not only is she perfectly happy, she is long gone. Try reading the thread...

I am very interested in becoming a rolemodle, how does one go about it?

MoreCrackThanHarlem · 23/11/2009 21:28

Hully you have made me wee in my pants a little

'cheerth for now'
lololololololololololololol

Hullygully · 23/11/2009 21:33

How croth she wath! Goodneth!

MoreCrackThanHarlem · 23/11/2009 21:35

Unfortunately hully I think your horriable attitude prevents you from becoming a rolemodle, which I believe is similar to a carpet fitter?
Shorter hours though, which could leave you with more time to mock people's weaknesses and play with your children on the climing frame, perhaps?

LeQueen · 23/11/2009 21:35

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ImSoNotTelling · 23/11/2009 21:36

I was thinking more of the comments directed at hobnobs.

mummygirl · 23/11/2009 21:37

HG, OU

Hullygully · 23/11/2009 21:37

Lovely old hobnoth? Who wath it?

ImSoNotTelling · 23/11/2009 21:41

I assume that you are all friends with hobnobs IRL/on here and therefore know that she either doesn't have a lisp, or has one and isn't bothered by it.

Otherwise this is simply incredibly bitchy.

mummygirl · 23/11/2009 21:41

MCTH, are you sure? Did I mistakenly direct HG to OU?

LeQueen, I NEVER sweat, I glow...

MoreCrackThanHarlem · 23/11/2009 21:43

Hully please stop my tena lady is full to capacity

Hullygully · 23/11/2009 21:45

She does have a lithp, but she wears a disguise so no one can tell.

UpYourViva · 23/11/2009 21:47

WTF

TigerDrivesAgain · 23/11/2009 21:54

Crikey, what a nasty mean-minded bunch of old cows. If you really behave like this in RL, I'm glad I don't know you. I mean, it's not like the OP posted in Pedants' Corner.

Hullygully · 23/11/2009 21:57

If you actually read the thread you'd discover that the only people insulting anyone are you prissy heads up your arses lot with your OOooo I'm telling attitudes. The rest of us have been having a laugh that has NOTHING TO DO WITH THE OP.

Bored now. Off to bed. Cheerth!

RumourOfAHurricane · 23/11/2009 22:00

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TigerDrivesAgain · 23/11/2009 22:02
ThatVikRinA22 · 23/11/2009 22:08

oh ill just answer the OP then...

YANBU. i have a child WITH special needs and guess what? id have still smacked his arse if he had behaved badly. (not that i ever had to smack his arse at all actually but im trying to make a point)

i police these little darlings when they are 15 and all growed up, its not that great really. (did you spot my deliberate grammatical error? did you? oh good! ill save you all pointing it out)

PercyPigPie · 23/11/2009 22:20

Judging by the vile and bitchy comments on this thread, a lot of your mothers didn't pick you up on bloody rude behaviour either.

OP don't be put off by a bunch of people who seem to benefit from a better grasp of the English language than you may - with or without a good education, I'm sure you wouldn't show yourself up like they have.

busymummy3 · 23/11/2009 22:24

i dont know why it is but it seems that there are now more disruptive and badly behaved children in my youngest dd's year group -she is 6 than when my other two dc's were the same age. is this just me ?

thesecondcoming · 23/11/2009 22:43

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