You're coming across as a little shrill, to be honest, but I'll try to address your points.
"your going to tell me your not, blah blah blah defending her right to freedom of speech, blah blah blah, your going to cleverly point out how im all wrong and your right blah blah blah and how ive just run headlong into reporting her without cleverly thinking it all through and tying myself up in knots defending my freedom of speech by defending her freedom of speech"
Well, I'm not sure what you mean by 'blah blah blah', but if you're saying that my argument is that you can't claim freedom of speech for yourself (to call Moir names) but then deny her the freedom of speech to state views which she is perfectly legally entitled to hold, well then yes, that is correct. I'm not sure how your counter-argument which consists of "blah blah blah" refutes that.
"lets not report the sad little narrow minded journo because she will be feeling all bad now that she has seen the error of her ways doe to joe public shouting at her."
In journalism, reputation is all. Her offensive views have left her reputation in tatters and by extention have damaged her career. So I couldn't possibly comment on whether or not she has "seen the error of her ways", but she'll certainly feel the impact of the airing of her unpleasant views.
This is good. The beauty of free speech in action. She's given her opinion, countless others have given theirs in turn, and she has come out the loser.
But you're saying that you want to report Moir because what she says is "..probably libelous and homophobic and massively fabricated". No you're not. You want to report her because you don't agree with her views.
It's not libel because Moir is not making any concrete claims about the circumstances surrounding Gateley's death.
Nor is it "fabrication" because Moir claims nothing as fact, she is quite clear that she is extrapolating and is also careful to stick to general discussion about the gay community (although of course she is infering that this therefore applies to Gateley's situation)
It's not illegal to be homophobic, whether you like that fact or not, and she therefore has every right to state her views of homosexual partnerships.
I'm not saying that you have to agree with her. All I'm saying is that you can't report her just because you don't like what she is saying. I'm not sure what you find so difficult to understand about this.