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Original poster

to want people to come back and tell me the outcome of their problem?

59 replies

girlsyearapart · 13/10/2009 09:16

Yes I'm a nosey parker.

When people start AIBU threads about specific
situations of a 'What should I do?' nature then never update on what they did do I become irrationally irritated.

So if you ask for advice on a problem please come back and tell me us all what happened.

Ta.

Or if you think I am BU then as you were.

OP posts:
elmofan · 13/10/2009 09:20
  • what particular threads do you want updates from ?
Original poster
girlsyearapart · 13/10/2009 09:23

all of them really..

the swimming lesson one would be nice.

OP posts:
TrillianSlasher · 13/10/2009 09:24

YANBU

Original poster
girlsyearapart · 13/10/2009 13:17

can everyone come on and update us all on everything they've ever asked then?

OP posts:
mamayaya · 13/10/2009 21:50

I was made redundant. I didn't fight it as it was stressing me out so much I got psoriasis and didn't sleep for ages. So yes I was BU to try and sue for unfair dismissal and some people were right that it wasn't worth the stress..

Three weeks later I got a new job - only 2 days a week and less pay - but soooo much less stress

will that do ?!

mamayaya · 13/10/2009 21:51

my user name was mummy2isla then!

ParisFrog · 14/10/2009 09:53

YANBU

I want to know about:

  • the pram in the hallway
  • the husband going away for a weekend with other woman
  • the DNA baby/husband test (did he come back grovelling?)

TIA!

Original poster
girlsyearapart · 14/10/2009 12:41

Thankyou mamayaya!

That's the spirit.

Keep it up folks..

OP posts:
Bucharest · 14/10/2009 12:44

I agree- but only because sometimes you get involved with a thread, and find yourself worrying about the person.....

thelunar66 · 14/10/2009 12:44

I want to know if that DH is still planning to drive a motorbike back from India, via various war zones next June, leaving his DW and newborn home alone.

Jamieandhismagictorch · 14/10/2009 12:58

me too lunar

I do like it when people come back and update us, but I quite understand why many of them would not want to go over old ground, and re-open old wounds. Too much water under the bridge.

< let sleeping dogs lie >

Original poster
girlsyearapart · 14/10/2009 19:34

Yes but if you want to come on here and ask about something then you clearly don't mind airing your isshoos on t'internet do you?

So it's only fair to go the whole hog..

Anyway am bumping this as we still haven't got any answers.

OP posts:
mamayaya · 14/10/2009 23:36

I want to know about the pram in the hallway too!!

sb6699 · 14/10/2009 23:40

Another one who wants to know about the DH and his motorbike ride home from India but I suppose we'll only know if he's def going nearer the time - twunt!

twolittlemonkeys · 14/10/2009 23:52

Oooh I've been wondering about the motorbike ride across India too. I hope she got rid of him... hehehehe

Original poster
girlsyearapart · 15/10/2009 08:32

well will just have to keep bumping till we get the answers then..

OP posts:
GibbonWithAnAppleBobbingBibOn · 15/10/2009 08:41

YANBU

sarah293 · 15/10/2009 08:43

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MaMight · 15/10/2009 08:45

I just made little pasties with the puff pastry and put the spanakopiter mix inside.

They were good.

ellieloooooooooooooween · 15/10/2009 08:49

YANBU
I want to know the outcome of the motor bike one too and also the one with the mil not getting on with the op and the DH defending his DM and the op kicked him out I was worried about OP think she had a tiny baby and the mil had ran outside with the baby.

ParisFrog · 15/10/2009 13:59

bump

KG100 · 15/10/2009 17:16

was that my pram in the hallway? I did post and update (I promise I did!) but it's gone now.

anyway if you missed it pram was moved, didn't come back.

latest update is a new fold up pram was purchased and the child seems to be quite happy with it. sadly the mother doesn't seem as pleased and is still in a huff and was still stomping around upstairs! but we noticed that she calmed down when she heard I'd called our solicitor for advice so hopefully we won't hear much more from her!

hope that helps

heartofgold · 15/10/2009 17:18

i got the dress and it is indeed clingy and unflattering

colditz · 15/10/2009 17:20

I want to know what happened to that woman whose abusive ex wouldn't leave her new flat until she gave him some money.

Did she give himmoney?

Did he leave?

nigglewiggle · 15/10/2009 17:32

What about the woman returning the dress to LK Bennet - where they didn't believe her account and sent the dress off for tests!!!

What did the CSI's discover, did she get her money back....

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