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to be miffed that dd2's teacher says 'anyfink'?

279 replies

kittywise · 12/10/2009 07:07

dd2 came home the other day saying that her teacher had said 'anyfink' and 'that wasn't right was it'?

I said that it wasn't right.

She's a primary school teacher fhs. She should be able to pronounce words properly

OP posts:
kreecherlivesupstairs · 12/10/2009 09:26

YABU. My dd occasionally comes out with Australian pronunciation from her teacher, I don't get airyated about it. You should be able to model your child's speech at home.

Nancy66 · 12/10/2009 09:36

YANBU - it's nothing to do with accents, the word is being mispronounced and it could lead to misunderstandings about spelling and definition.

TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 12/10/2009 09:43

I HATE people saying 'anythink' or 'everythink'. Simon Cowell does it. It's not a word, it's ridiculous.

But, having said that, I do think YABU as teachers are actually human and cannot possibly be perfect 24/7.

islandofsodor · 12/10/2009 09:53

DD's new Yr 3 teacher says f too. At the start of term meeting we neard all about the maths lessons and finking etc.

I don't like it as although we speak with a broad regional accent we have always emphasised good diction.

Her previous teachers have all been quite posh and she picked up a bit of a posh southern accent from them to go with her broad potteries!

PCPlumIsMyHomeboy · 12/10/2009 09:55

I'd find that annoying too, but then DD's teacher drives me DEMENTED every day by calling lunch 'dinner', so I am perhaps a little sensitive to such things before 9am.

TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 12/10/2009 09:57

PC- round here we have breakfast, dinner and tea. No 'lunch'.

islandofsodor · 12/10/2009 10:00

That would be mafs lessons of course!

sugardumpling · 12/10/2009 10:20

YABU Im a cockney and always try to speak "proper" , but sometimes I just forget myself and drop me t's and h's,nuthink wrong wiv that luv. And yes I call dinner tea and lunch dinner who gives a toss really?

UnquietDad · 12/10/2009 10:22

You do not say "anyfink" because you have a regional accent. You say it because you cannot speak properly.

kreecherlivesupstairs · 12/10/2009 10:31

I'd have to disagree with you Dad, I am a Londoner too (hello dumpling), and if I don't think about it, I slide into Pat Butcher land and her way of speaking. It isn't because I can't speak properly, just my regional accent.
People get very snotty about London accents and estuary english, you seldom hear comments about scousers or mancs which, to my way of thinking are horrid accents (and I'm married to a mancunian).

GoldenSnitch · 12/10/2009 10:36

Anyfink certainly winds me up less that the use of the word "brought" when they mean "bought" and "I done it" for "I did it"!!!

Bloody Southerners!

sugardumpling · 12/10/2009 10:38

Oi I can talk properly, I'm a good girl I am

OrmIrian · 12/10/2009 10:47

Be glad that you aren't in her class and don't have to hear it all the time I'd be grinding my teeth in frustration within minutes! But that is my problem. I hate glottal stops, 'fevver' for feather and 'anythink'.... but whether it's accent, dialect, sociolect (thanks for that cory ) it has become normalised and we just have to grin and bear it.

I still nag my children about their speech at home. Usually they behave but if they are really pissed off with me their speech goes right down the swanney

Nancy66 · 12/10/2009 10:48

mispronouncing words is nothing to do with where you are from.

it's like saying it's ok to call it bersketti instead of spaghetti - because you're from a certain area. You just sound thick.

OrmIrian · 12/10/2009 10:52

I have one particular neighbour who never gets words or phrases right. I don't correct her of course. But everytime she mispronounces something my inner school mistress gives a little 'ahem'. It can get quite uncomfortable.

She says for example Mitsubitsy for Mitubishi. She had cytisius the other day. Traditional review for judicial review. And little phrases like hammer and tongs get changed in odd ways that make no sense - hammer and bangs - ???.

diddl · 12/10/2009 11:02

Also hate it when people get teach/learn and borrow/lend the wrong way round!

"Anyfink" is lazy,though.

And dinner-isn´t that the main meal of the day, so you can have dinner at midday or in the evening?

We eat breakfast,dinner & tea most days.

Sometimes, we have breakfast, lunch and dinner, though.

It´s easy here, you eat breakfast, midday meal & evening meal!

sugardumpling · 12/10/2009 11:09

well i'm not thick either, just don't see the problem unless of course your stuck up and not common like moi

thedollshouse · 12/10/2009 11:12

You never actually heard her yourself so stop stressing about it. Alternatively make an appointment with the Head and see what response you get, would like to be a fly on the wall for that one!

kreecherlivesupstairs · 12/10/2009 11:15

Hear hear sugardumpling. I'm common and vulgar.(according to a former colleague of my dh)

sugardumpling · 12/10/2009 11:22

Oh yeah Kreech, vulgar too btw I hope that colleague of your DH was joking!

madamearcati · 12/10/2009 11:25

YANBU.It is just plain wrong.

onagar · 12/10/2009 11:43

It's a regional thing and clearly I wouldn't be welcome in your social circles as this is how I speak.

what can seem like a harmless accent when you are a child can negatively affect the way people percieve you at work as an adult

sugardumpling · 12/10/2009 11:46

hear hear Onagar

Nancy66 · 12/10/2009 11:47

You are all missing the point - this woman is a TEACHER.

madamearcati · 12/10/2009 11:51

Surely not speaking correctly will make it more difficult for the children to spell correctrly ?

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