to be upset that DP

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posted comment's, about a woman posting nearly naked suggestive pics of herself on a website...
"You are hot" "I would like to wake up to see you like that in the morning "

of course my posts are flat and understated, I am not a hysterical type of person.
my family taught me to be controlled, not wash yours in public and so on.

btw is it controlling when someone has a go at you, when you raise a question unrelated?

he has often had a go (eg today I dont clean the kitchen right) when I raise a problem about something of his (ie perving) but later so it is not obviously related iyswim

you need to get out of that relationship and fast. What will you be like a few years down the line. What about any kids. Think how he could be with them if he treats you like this.

Whether you love him or not, you need to do the right thing.

i think you already know the answer,think you know he is a git

i am observing the flat affection. kind of broken that comes over.not a criticism just observation

i am not advocating hand wringing and disclosure.but stiff upper lip is applicable to social situations not violence

do you have children?