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to loathe the expression "i am a girly girl"

63 replies

NoahDear · 19/09/2009 16:28

they normally are " chocoholics, a bit crazy and love cocktails"

ew

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bodeniites · 19/09/2009 16:33

i am too old to be a girly girl but i am a womanly woman I like pretty, sparkly things and shoot me PINK, chocolate gives me a sore head and i am tee total so YABU

CrackPirate · 19/09/2009 16:35

YANBU.

But then I'd look like a pig in a wig in sparkly pink

MamaG · 19/09/2009 16:40

YEs. But I also hate it when a mate of DH's says "Oh I don't really get on with women" (ya farking slaaaaaaaaaaag)

MamaG · 19/09/2009 16:41

Obv I mean no, YANBU

not yes

and DH's mate is a woman, not a man, to clarify!

Morloth · 19/09/2009 16:44

Well I like all those things and the sparklies and have never thought of myself as a girly girl. Don't wear makeup, rarely a skirt or a dress (jeans and t-shirts), I sometimes remember to shave my legs and my nails are clipped short (got to be for boxing lessons).

Cocktails are great though, love all the pretty colours layered one upon another...

NoahDear · 19/09/2009 16:44

no i dont care about what they LIKE
its the epxression i hate

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ahundredtimes · 19/09/2009 16:50

YANBU

I don't even understand it. Someone asked me once if dd was a 'girly girl'. I had to ask for clarification, she said 'well does she like glitter?'

ahundredtimes · 19/09/2009 16:52

Actually I'm not keen on women calling themselves girls, whether they say they are boysy girls or girly girls or girly boys or any of it.

sometimes ime the person who says they are a girly girl will then go on to say, 'I'm bubbly' and 'I'm a real people person'.

mollyroger · 19/09/2009 16:52

vom

mollyroger · 19/09/2009 16:52

vom

NoahDear · 19/09/2009 16:55

lol at vom.
I said to ds1 today I wanted some edible glitter for the cakes i am making and he said " oh oyu are such a girl"

well i am teh only one in the house fgs

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bodeniites · 19/09/2009 16:56

have to agree "bubbly" often means they never stop talking makes me think of Vicky in the Archers

NoahDear · 19/09/2009 16:57

there was a woman on come dine with me who seemed to have no job apart from being "a girly girl"

she was vile
the type who hates fish

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WhereYouLeftIt · 19/09/2009 17:04

Agree with ahundredtimes, nobody's a girl post-puberty. I can just about stomach it from VERY old women, it was the manner of speech they grew up with, but I just boak when anyone my age describes themselves as a girl.

bodeniites · 19/09/2009 17:07

pmsl what on earth is "the type who hates fish"?

OrmIrian · 19/09/2009 17:08

I'm not even a girl. How can I be a girly one

CrackPirate · 19/09/2009 17:09

I hate fish. They are evil. But am still not girly.

NoahDear · 19/09/2009 17:09

you know the type who is picky abotu food and wont drive on motorways AND doesnt have her own chiffing email address

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OrmIrian · 19/09/2009 17:10

noah - I know the type. They don't like fish because it has icky bits and eyes

CrackPirate · 19/09/2009 17:20

The eyes, the eyes [shudder]

BalloonSlayer · 19/09/2009 18:23

I saw a car the other day which was silver but was festooned with pink flowers and stars. It had a pink steering wheel and other pink doodads inside (I have noted with consternation that there is now a pink accessory aisle in Halfords.)

On the back of the car it had printed - no word of a lie - "Powered by Fairydust."

Given that Gussie Fink-Nottle is a fictional character, do you think the driver of a car like this will ever get a boyfriend?

mollyroger · 19/09/2009 18:24

and they don't read books, only magazines and they sneer they don't have time to read, and yet watch every episode of X-facotr-come-talent-on-ice...
And they can't cook because everything is icky to touch and they seem to think having boys is a punishment inflcited on the less worthy, for not being girly enough.

BalloonSlayer · 19/09/2009 18:26

And they do everything with the very tips of their fingers.

mollyroger · 19/09/2009 18:26

I did have a nice t-shirt in my youth which was purple and said: don't fuck off the fairies

chachalepew · 19/09/2009 18:27

Balloon they will get a bf, because they're the type of person who has clip in, blonde,hair and wears stetsons and a bikini top clubbing.