A small group of mums from school agreed to go out for a day together over summer to the beach. We all get on really well, have known each other for ages etc etc.
My friend who organised it e-mailed everyone the details and one of the mums has replied aying, "I can't make it, but I'm sending DD with her childminder"
I'm a bit about this.
- none of us know/ have met the childminder so it's going to make the day a bit awkward with a 'new person' in amongst a bunch of friends IYSWIM
- this wasn't meant just as a kids day out - it was a chance for us to meet/ chat/ have a laugh etc
- the 'DD' in question is a bit of a madam - bossy etc. I don't know how well the CM manages her behaviour.
AIBU to be a bit annoyed?