in objecting to hearing my neighbours shagging in their dining room

[Honeymum]

We often hear our neighbours having sex. It's horrible - they both make so much noise it's like a porn film audition. We don't get on, at all (long story) and we find them generally quite inconsiderate noise wise. Their doors and windows are always wide open, all weathers, and we can hear everything - pots and pans clattering, singing (him, loudly and badly), loud music. And she smokes skunk in the garden of an afternoon....Relations between us all are strained to say the least but there have been no rows since a dispute last summer...
On Friday they got back from the pub at 7.15 pm(I think), closed the curtains in the dining room adjacent to our back door (tis a terraced house - we are v close together at the back with kitchen windows facing across a small divided yard) and proceeded to shag loudly. We were in the garden - though not our kids thankfully. AIBU to think that this is not on??

[Mamazon]

they are in their own homes.
they can do what they like when they like and as long as its not after 11pm, as loudly as they like.

[thederkinsdame]

And can grow their own bushes too Sorry, Mamazon, but the irony struck me...!

[Fruitysunshine]

I don't have a dining room....

[heyvick]

song suggestion.........chorus of 'hit me with your best shot' copied over and over

[Fruitysunshine]

Love it heyvick!!

[heyvick]

[preciouslillywhite]

A mate of mine used to live in a block of flats where his upstairs neighbours used to have noisy shags with SHOUTED commentary. Choicest- "come on, do me up the arse and finish me off" at 3am

[pingping]

I once managed a pub and me and my now ex boyfriend one friday night got abit frisky so went upstairs to my flat and got down to it about an hr before closing. When we had finished what we was doing we went back down to the pub to cash up etc and the doorstaff slapped my Ex on the back and said well done to him. It wasn't till I went back into my flat and realised that I had left the Windows open.

My flat was directly above the pubs front doors so as the punters left they clearly heard everything

[Hormonesnomore]

precious!

Puppyloves, I waited till a "quiet" day and brought up the subject while we were chatting. I jokingly referred to the fact that I thought she was being hurt, pretend shock, etc... and asked if she could keep the noise down a wee bit as it was embarrassing me & my family. Cue profuse apologies & red faces all round. Did the trick though. She was a lovely neighbour otherwise & we got on really well, otherwise I'd have found it difficult to raise the subject.

[rosiest]

LOL precious!! Oh if only it were so interesting where I live!!