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To invite the whole of Mumsnet to come judge my Ex-P?

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madameovary · 20/06/2009 08:51

This will probably make more sense to those posting on the Emotional Abuse thread.

Today is a difficult day for me.
Ex-P is getting "handfasted" to OW today. Apparently this is because she thinks she's terminally ill. They are doing this in front of people from the poetry world, none of whom have a clue what he is really like.

He left me in January after several weeks of "we should just be friends".
Logically I am well shot of him. I DO know this!
this was a good example of his behaviour.
DD was ten months old.
When he gets her pg, as he surely will, this will make six DC's to four different mothers.

He is 51 fgs. I recently spoke to his ex-wife who says he was controlling and abusive to her as well and that his 21 yr old son now thinks he's a joke.

Yes, I am hurting, yes I am wishing I had never met him (if not for my beautiful DD its my favourite fantasy).
And yes it will make me feel a whole lot better if you tell me what a twunt he is!

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BitOfFun · 21/06/2009 00:37

Im on iPhone too! Just do it again but without the gap before the brackets!

FlappyTheBat · 21/06/2009 00:37

first link works if you cut and paste, I know I shouldn't but , they are brilliant!!!!

FlappyTheBat · 21/06/2009 00:41
madameovary · 21/06/2009 00:42

Oh goody it worked
Flappy, there is a playpark v. Near me. Yes they do takeaways.
BitofFun, I do love that pic of you, i have some really nice pics that were prof. taken of me in my twenties, if your DH finds the reality disappointing

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madameovary · 21/06/2009 00:45

Flappy they replaced mine after I dropped it. I swiftly bought a new case! Never fear, you will get yours soon.
Have been drooling over latest iPhone which has video camera.

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BitOfFun · 21/06/2009 00:47

Wwwwwhat?! You are beautiful as you are right now- give me a quick heads up on email at my name here with a one after it, yahoo dot co dot uk- it would be lovely to be in touch x

madameovary · 21/06/2009 00:53

Will do BOfF, hang on...

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FlappyTheBat · 21/06/2009 00:54

mine was in a case in my pocket at work, I got wet and so did iPhone, pity I didn't notice until the next again day.

My ins company don't hold stocks of iPhones so wonder if I'll get shiny new iPhone 3gs as a replacement??

sorry, will stop hijacking your thread with my iPhone woes!

BitOfFun, have had a look and the pictures are amazing!

Going to say goodnight as I just know that I'll be woken up in about 6 hours time.

madameovary, text me to let me know when is an ok time to meet up, m at nursery still in mornings for the next week, then it's the summer holidays!

madameovary · 21/06/2009 00:59

Will do Flappy.
I must get some sleep too.

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madameovary · 21/06/2009 01:00

Meant to say "night all"
BoF - have emailed you.

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BitOfFun · 21/06/2009 01:02

just waiting for it to come through...bitoffun1 @ yahoo.uk? X

madameovary · 21/06/2009 01:09

Yes, think it sent ok. If I don't hear back from you will try again in the morning. X

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BitOfFun · 21/06/2009 01:13

Nothing yet, so keep trying- hopefully it's too late for anyone to pay much attention: [email protected] !!

madameovary · 21/06/2009 07:39

NinkyNork - what gorgeous angelic looking DCs you have

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RealityIsMyOnlyDelusion · 21/06/2009 11:09

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Ninkynork · 21/06/2009 11:13

Thanks madameovary, I love your captions btw

madameovary · 21/06/2009 11:18

"Bisto" is my favourite - also the most childish
Reality - am -ing now!

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PlumpRumpSoggyBaps · 21/06/2009 12:49

Just popped back in for a quick and at Handfast Man.

I have to say, I'm severely disillusioned. There I was, picturing a tall,striking Artistic Type, with a high forehead and shoulder length salt-and-pepper hair (complete with widow's peak) which he would sweep off his high forehead when he was ridden with Artistic Angst and what do I find?

Paunchy Man. Mr I'm-so-ordinary-I-couldn't-be-identified-in-a-lineup Man.

Honestly. If you hadn't already said it yourself I'd have to ask:-

WHAT were you THINKING???

Talk about Beauty and the Beast....

Hey ho. Will merely restrict self to some more snurking.

How sad, though, to be such an object of such huge ridicule to so many women.

TrillianAstra · 21/06/2009 13:37

at "Beauty and the Beast"

dittany · 21/06/2009 13:44

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Pan · 21/06/2009 14:16

I can't be the only one who is thinking at this thread? Quite a few levels. One is the wallowing, instead of getting on with living well, as lulu pointed out. Other's include the total lack of responsibility you appear to be taking for your decisions re this bloke ( like quiet a few posters going on about their 'no good dh/ps'), and also people getting a bit judgey about other's personal appearance, like they themselves are some godess. Just a few obs.

dittany · 21/06/2009 14:22

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FlappyTheBat · 21/06/2009 14:27

If you knew the background to this thread that madameovary started, then I'm sure that you would have not used the face.

Your post was a good example of someone who has probably only read the OP and the first few responses

Pan · 21/06/2009 14:29

no flapps - read it all. PMSL at hand-fasting though. Soo ripe.

FlappyTheBat · 21/06/2009 14:34

I'll take back what I said then, but when you have been hurt badly by someone you trusted enough to have a child with, and then discovered what he was really like, I can't blame madameovary for ridiculing her ex p.

I agree with you that the best type of revenge would be to live a very happy life and stay strong!