in being a bit miffed when i post a long and personal post .....

[Mamazon]

and then MNHQ come along and delete it.

It took me ages to type it all out in a non emotional way and to try and put across my point whilst giving my own backgrund and grounds for my opinion.

it wasn't the most pleasant thing to do but i thought it may have been of benefit to the OP.

just gone and seen that its been deleted.

AIBU to be a bit gutted that i wasted the enegery. i wish if a thread got deleted it still showed up for a short time in our Threads im on. at leastthat way we could save the messages somewhere.

maybe ask MNHQ why it was deleted? no idea what thread and what comment, but if it was something important and persoanl and hard to share i can see why you would be cross

the whole trhead was deleted and im fairly sure i know why.
its just a bit irritating that its now gone forever.

for once i managed to make sense

Have they said why they deleted it?

what was it about?

Mamazon, email me

annabeldonaghey hotmail com

you know we're all going to be badgering you now til you tell us what it was about!!

Reality what the fuck do you mean?

ok, i shall back gingerly away from the thread as clearly stuff is going on i have no idea about

Eh? What? When?

arrgghh - what did I miss?

Who? Where?

sorry didn't realise it was kicking off.

It wasn't really about your thread, more the way threads are deleted and everything is lost.

Stir away Reality, you have no idea....

what was it about??

Because my exH doesn't know my other posting name, he knows this one and that's fine. I know he reads my posts (waves to the twat)

yes, i see your point mamazon. i suppose you have to chalk it up to experience. you were trying to help someone, whether they were trolling or not, iykwim? and that's the right thing. perhaps in future, though, if you really feel you've cracked it and said something that means the world to you, you could stick it on a blog or at least save it as a word document of your thoughts?

Mamazon Just had a peep at your photos on your profile, has anyone ever told you that you have a lovely pair of erm .... eyes

ah.

i thought the problem was that you were irredeemably in love with the twat, dwp? if it's all true then you should definitely take the advice you were given last night and keep him away from you.

I am it's hideously complicated. He has been staying overnight and I daren't even admit it to my mum, she will be so disappointed I'm so fucking weak.

I think I've been deliberately delaying the divorce for the same reasons.

you need to decide who youlove more. Him or you and your dc's.

by staying with him you are damaging your own self esteem and that of your children.

being a mum means making sacrifices in sake of your kids, and im afraid its the most important sacrifices that hurt the most.

you need him out of your life.

but im sure that this isn't helping.

I saw the thread last night and was surprised that it had disappeared this morning.

FWIW, I hope that you take the advice given.

it's hard, you are an abused woman. you don't seem to really get that, though. or if you do, you're accepting of it, if that's the price you pay to be with him.