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Seeing as we're getting personal...

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RugMuncher · 16/04/2009 01:58

How many people have you slept with?

For me i cant actually count the amount of males, maybe 2/3 hundred, yes, i know its alot and if i could change that fact i probably would...

But it made me who i am today

Amount of males = 200/300
Amount of females = 1

OP posts:
GorgonsGin · 16/04/2009 16:46

9 - I can remember all their names too.

DH = "around 30" (or so he claims )

Disenchantegg3 · 16/04/2009 19:16

Awww Morloth thats fab

DH and I have only ever slept with each other and we have a great sex life

PlumBumMum · 16/04/2009 19:48

Morloth dh and I will be together 16 years this year (half our lives), lucky when we got together MORE magazine did a position of the fortnight/month, so we had lots of fun and I don't think we've missed out at all by not having other partners

cikecaka · 16/04/2009 20:20

Just the one here as well, I was the first for DH as well

ahfeckit · 16/04/2009 20:27
TheLadyEvenstar · 16/04/2009 20:37

Figment, what a brill attitude,

have gone back to my normal name now lol

LauriefairycakeeatsCupid · 16/04/2009 20:42

30- ish

only 2 in last fifteen years

ingles2 · 16/04/2009 20:48

around 25 probably.
I seriously can't remember and definitely couldn't name them,
and I've only slept with 1 man in the last 15 years!
I was a teenage slapper

CoffeeInducedInsomnia · 16/04/2009 20:49

6

differentID · 16/04/2009 20:49

1- I'm married to him.

nickytwotimes · 16/04/2009 20:51

40-50 guys.
0 women.

sayithowitis · 16/04/2009 20:51

Just the 1. As someone else said, i was lucky enough to meet DH when we were both young and virgins. Been together over 30 years now. We didn't teach each other what we liked, we learned together!

Hulababy · 16/04/2009 20:57

Just the 1 - DH

Wezz · 16/04/2009 21:03

Around the 30ish I think, in a very short space of time as I've been with DP for 16 years

Don' remember them all...regret a few if I think about them....so i don't

oliviasmama · 16/04/2009 21:10

5, oh how I wish it was soooo many more

DP claims hundreds....yeah, yeah, yeah

debbie102 · 16/04/2009 21:16

between 10 and 20 id say , just wasnt lucky i guess. lol
been a while now though since i left ex think ive forgotten wat to do pmsl.

ThumbelinaTrumple · 16/04/2009 21:18

5

Cattymum · 16/04/2009 21:21

I dont know!!! I really cant remember its all such a long time ago, but quite a few. Certainly cant remember names

DH has never asked me about my past... I dont know what he would think of me if he knew because I am his first and only...

I dont think it matters really

TheLadyEvenstar · 16/04/2009 21:21

lol debbie i can get you some lessons

smugaboo · 16/04/2009 21:35

Hmm, about 33 here.

"Why is it that sex is seen as something so unimportant that it's just done with whoever? Sorry, I just don't understand! I can get my head around having sex with men one's had a long term relationship with, but surely if you've slept with 10+ men then they can't all be long term relationships?" greatwhiteshark

Speaking for myself (obviously!) when I was in my twenties sex was fun and I had no problem separating the emotion from the act. None of it was abusive, I was never a victim (except of beer goggles maybe!) and they were good times. That said, not sure I could be in that head space again and I have never looked at another man since I have been with DH (10 years).

smugaboo · 16/04/2009 21:37

I mean I was a victim of my own beer goggles - not of someone else's!

... or maybe I was? I can look a bit ropey in the morning

catsmother · 16/04/2009 21:45

"Why is it that sex is seen as something so unimportant that it's just done with whoever? Sorry, I just don't understand! I can get my head around having sex with men one's had a long term relationship with, but surely if you've slept with 10+ men then they can't all be long term relationships?" greatwhiteshark

If you're in your mid 40s (or older) it's quite possible, in almost 30 years (or longer) of sexual activity to have had 10 or more partners and for them to have been serious or long term relationships.

Remember too that there's no guarantees when you sleep with someone ..... you could have "waited" a couple of months to see how "serious" things got, yet be dumped very soon after.

10+ partners is entirely feasible and does NOT mean you are a slapper.

Personally, I could not, and have not, ever slept with "whoever", yet it matters not a jot to me if other women choose to. Not everyone is lucky enough to meet "the one" very early on and live happily ever after.

valleysprincess · 16/04/2009 23:10

So many ive lost count. I am especially good looking though which helps

oliviasmama · 16/04/2009 23:14

at VP

Washersaurus · 16/04/2009 23:19

7 men but only really enjoyed having sex with 2 of them (obv one of them being DH).

I imagine DH shagged around loads before we met at 17/18 (I know he has managed to a few times since..y'know when we were 'on a break' type thing)