Seeing as we're getting personal...

[RugMuncher]

How many people have you slept with?

For me i cant actually count the amount of males, maybe 2/3 hundred, yes, i know its alot and if i could change that fact i probably would...

But it made me who i am today

Amount of males = 200/300
Amount of females = 1

God I'm so naive! I hope this doesn't actually offend anyone, but I am actually really that real life people (ie. not people on American sitcoms) really do sleep with so many different men!

Why is it that sex is seen as something so unimportant that it's just done with whoever? Sorry, I just don't understand! I can get my head around having sex with men one's had a long term relationship with, but surely if you've slept with 10+ men then they can't all be long term relationships?

Or maybe it's to do with what you call a long term relationship...

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crush-do you think it matters in the grand scheme of things? I don't think i've ever had a one night stand (meet someone,fuck them,never see them again) i've slept with people only once, i've slept with people the first time i've met them and not slept with them again but if i run into them now things are always nice/polite. I am sure i've forgotten some people too shrugs don't think when i did it i did it for any other reason than for the sake of it,not to validate myself/feel attractive/get attention etc etc.

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Crush

first i was 16 and was with him until I was 21.
2nd was ds1's father who i was with for 4 yrs.
3rd I was with for 2 yrs
then a few casual relationships over 4 years until i met my partner who i have been with for 3 1.2 yrs.

The casual ones were more about having fun/for the sake of it rather than anything else although of course the attention does help lol

4 here too, 2 long termers and 2 flings. don't regret any of them tbh.

1. Hopefully that'll be it.

About 20 men I think! 1 women.

2 (and now bitterly regret number 1!!)
dh has 3

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BTW - so happy im not the only one

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Was a late starter and just happened to meet DH first. He was the same so we're pretty exclusive so far!

Love how many ones there are.

Mine was also not conscious choice, just happened to meet the right one first.

Just the one.

For those where the number is more than say, 10 - is it something you actually have stored in your head or do you have to go back and count up each time? Serious question, as it's just not something I know off the top of my head.

Ought to clarify that I'm only in the low teens myself before anyone thinks my number is stratospheric and that's why I don't know it...

3, all men.

Six.

About 25 i'd say.

i wouldn't have liked to have sex with only one man - especially not if he'd only had one lover too. Must be like the blind leading the blind!

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Nancy - what's wrong with that? You teach eachother!

I actually can't remember.

But my husband thinks it's about 2 or 3, I think.

hahahahahahaha

Greatwhite - how can you teach each other if you've never had any experience and neither knows what they're doing?

3.5 - the point 5 was one where we got it on IYSWIM - but got interrupted and didn't finish what we started...which was a damn shame!!!!

nancy, its natural. my first time was with a fellow virgin and tbh it got better v quickly.