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Seeing as we're getting personal...

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RugMuncher · 16/04/2009 01:58

How many people have you slept with?

For me i cant actually count the amount of males, maybe 2/3 hundred, yes, i know its alot and if i could change that fact i probably would...

But it made me who i am today

Amount of males = 200/300
Amount of females = 1

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RumourOfAHurricane · 16/04/2009 09:49

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Morloth · 16/04/2009 09:53

One.

I am not keen on touching other people outside of my immediately family. Not freakout don't touch me, but I avoid physical contact if possible. I just don't like it, never have - so it wasn't until I was crazy in love with DH that I was even interested in kissing etc.

So waiting until being married was an obvious choice for me. Within our family there are plenty of cuddles, hand holding etc, but I still don't like for others to touch me. DH is even worse then I am about it.

Pinkjenny · 16/04/2009 09:54
Simplysally · 16/04/2009 09:55

More than one and less than my age.

Claire2009 · 16/04/2009 12:24

14, I have to think & count each time someone asks, 4 were bf's and long-ish term, (10mths, 8mths, 2yrs & 5yrs) the rest were fun that I v much needed, not 1 night stands...friendly fun.

BitOfFun · 16/04/2009 12:26

About 50 or 60, maybe. Do you count girls?

Cosmosis · 16/04/2009 12:30
  1. And actual number of times other than with DH is only 4.
alicecrail · 16/04/2009 12:32

mid teens and only one was a one night stand. Dh doesn't know, i think he thinks about 6 or 7, thats fine, he doesn't ask i don't tell

SerendipitousHarlot · 16/04/2009 12:38

Oh Between 50 and 70.

BitOfFun, of course you count girls!

kidcreoleandthecoconuts · 16/04/2009 12:39

Lots...I honestly don't know off the top of my head. If I had the time and the inclination I could probably write down all the names of them....but then I'm good with names .

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PlumBumMum · 16/04/2009 12:45

1

Nancy66 thats just stupid, I know other people who have slept with far more people than me and are very inhibited and less adventrous in bed than me,
it comes down to the couple, its the same as kissing you can kiss someone if the chemistry is there its amazing, if not its just an aul sloppy snog

LadyOfWaffle · 16/04/2009 12:46

1 really

BitOfFun · 16/04/2009 12:48

The trouble with counting girls though (can you tell I have thought about this?)is that you didn't have pokey sex with them, so then you have to count the other men you had fumbly rude stuff with too, and then I just about inch into the realm of A Bit Slaggy...

swingbothways · 16/04/2009 12:51

LOL

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PlumBumMum · 16/04/2009 12:52

, so are you asking can we count the ones we had a bitoffun with

drlove8 · 16/04/2009 12:54

seven ,must be my lucky number .

Salleroo · 16/04/2009 13:01

5, wish it was more

coolma · 16/04/2009 13:09

I was workingthis out the other night trying to get to sleep and it is 22 AND I can name them all!!

sleeplessinstretford · 16/04/2009 13:13

i can only get the correct number by having my best mate with me who says things like 'the one at Daves wedding,That one with the thumb ring-who was he' sometimes i forget-she's in mexico right now so i can't give a full on answer but i'd say around maybe 50 give or take ten or so...and some i can't remember if we just youknow,fumbled around or actually potted the pink so...

BettySwollux · 16/04/2009 13:16

26

swingbothways · 16/04/2009 13:18

You know its good to know i am not the only one who has had more than one partner.
(oh I forgot about 3 so it is 13 plus 2 women who don't count apparently but hmmm oral with them....anyway change of subject)

Isn't the weather horrible today?

BitOfFun · 16/04/2009 13:21

I didn't say they didn't count - just that it might be unwise for me to count them...

kidcreoleandthecoconuts · 16/04/2009 13:21

Ok...Ive just written them down and it's 53 but most of those were from Uni and my early/mid twenties.
I could name them all! But not necessarily by their proper names....I have a 'Ginger Neil' and a ' Holiday Steve' on my list.