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Seeing as we're getting personal...

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RugMuncher · 16/04/2009 01:58

How many people have you slept with?

For me i cant actually count the amount of males, maybe 2/3 hundred, yes, i know its alot and if i could change that fact i probably would...

But it made me who i am today

Amount of males = 200/300
Amount of females = 1

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BCNS · 16/04/2009 14:01

slightly off subject ( but not wanting to start a thread about a thread).. how many of your number do you admit to partners to?

i'm still way into single figures.

Mumcentreplus · 16/04/2009 14:05

one

TheBolter · 16/04/2009 14:06

Ummm.... dh has never asked me. I don't think he wants to know!

We did have a chat about it once when we got together and I ummed and ahhed and mumbled my way through it!

TheButterflyEffect · 16/04/2009 14:06

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branflake81 · 16/04/2009 14:07

1 for me as well.

I am quite surprised by how many are 1. Amongst my friends my number is very low!

TheButterflyEffect · 16/04/2009 14:10

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sleeplessinstretford · 16/04/2009 14:12

i don't think he's interested- i have a kid to one other-we were friends for a while before we got together (i thought he was gay) and so witnessed/heard about my slaggy past-i may not be entirely serious here btw-he doesn't care-he knows there'll be no one elses cock for me unless he carks it while i am still young enough to pull/be interested in a bit of slap and ticklybits...

Hangingbellyofbabylon · 16/04/2009 14:13

maybe 6 or 7 - some I've managed to blot out of memory. No real regrets as it meant dh and I really appreciated each other when we got together as it was and always will be the best ever.

Mamazon · 16/04/2009 14:13

dunno. less than a hundred. i think

and a couple of girls.

beanieb · 16/04/2009 14:31

I am 39 and have never been married.

higgle · 16/04/2009 15:02

34, The only name I can't remember was a planning officer ( but I can remember his cat's name)

PadDad · 16/04/2009 15:18

AMcD:
And how about you? How many have you slept with?

HG:
Christ! Nothing like that many. I don't know... I don't know what the fuck l've been doing with my time. Work, probably. Yeah, work. I have been working late a lot.

AND THEN QUITE A WHILE LATER HE REFERENCES HOW MAY HE HAS SLEPT WITH:

HG:
Look. Sorry.
I just... Well...
This is a really stupid question,
particularly in view of our shopping excursion,
but I just wondered if by any chance...

Obviously not, because
l've only slept with nine people.

But l... I just wondered...
I really feel...
In short, to recap
in a slightly clearer version,
in the words of David Cassidy,
while still with the Partridge Family,
I think I love you. And...
I just wondered whether
by any chance you wouldn't like to...
No. No, of course not.
I'm an idiot. He's not.
Excellent. Fantastic.
Lovely to see you.
Sorry to disturb. Better get on.

  • Fuck!

AMcD:

  • That was very romantic.

HG:
Well, I thought it over a lot, you know.
I wanted to get it just right.
Important to have said it, I think.

AMcD:
Said what, exactly?

HG:
Said, you know, what I just said about David Cassidy.

juneybean · 16/04/2009 15:19

3

SoWhat · 16/04/2009 15:26

3 guys, no girls (though came close once!)

DH 6 girls

Fizzylemonade · 16/04/2009 15:49

I must be v naive but am shocked as to how much girl on girl action has been going on

My number is v low, you can count it on one hand

No one night stands, was never drunk enough and was in relationship at uni so none of the usual shagging around.

KayHarker · 16/04/2009 15:56

I honestly can't remember how many men. I think it's middling double figures, but I can't be definite. About 10 or so women, though.

TheProfiteroleThief · 16/04/2009 16:01

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wickerman · 16/04/2009 16:02

35

ridingjoker · 16/04/2009 16:02

14 men (number 13 was definately my most unlucky as wankering exp who's dc dad)

and for whoever asked... dont need to recount everytime when this question is asked. its a number i'm always conscious of.

never had one night stand
have slept with someone on first proper date (not on first meeting)

wishingwellofhope · 16/04/2009 16:13

3

HonkingAntelope · 16/04/2009 16:25

13 and I hope that's not the end of the list...

clumsymum · 16/04/2009 16:29

just had a count up.

It was 7 !! I can't believe it, I thought I was such a good a good girl. My mother would be HORRIFIED if she knew....

I too am somewhat surprised at the amount of girl-on-girl action on here. Personally I can't imagine ever fancying it.

FigmentOfYourImagination · 16/04/2009 16:29

Dunno

Men
More than 50.
Less than 100.

Women
3 or 4

I couldn't care less how I am judged on those figures (if indeed, I am judged at all). I was free to behave as I liked. The sex was 'safe' and all of it was consensual. I am not going to get my knickers in a twist over numbers.

FigmentOfYourImagination · 16/04/2009 16:30

DH's 'magic number' is considerably higher than mine.

Morloth · 16/04/2009 16:33

Nancy66 "how can you teach each other if you've never had any experience and neither knows what they're doing?"

You learn together Nancy, the basics come naturally, its the individual preferences that make for really good sex I think, we experiment with different things and find the things that work best for each other.

We have been married for almost 11 years now and both know exactly what do to for whatever effect is desired. Sometimes all DH has to do is look at me in a certain way and my knees go wobbly.