to be offended that a one-night stand only wanted a one-night stand?

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didIreally · 13/04/2009 12:05

Ok- Im pretty sure I am but please hear me out.

Met a really nice bloke on Friday night and ended up going home with him and having sex! (Totally out of character but had a great time!) First man I've slept with since I split up with exH a year ago.

I was happy for it just to be a one-night thing as I am really enjoying being on my own but feel offended that he hasn't called or even text me.

It's really knocked my confidence. What is wrong with me? Did he not find me attractive?
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah, I know I'm being ridiculous but would have been nice if he'd have wanted to see me again. (although I probably wouldn't want to meet up with him again!)

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thesockmonsterofdoom · 14/04/2009 19:23

OMG I slept with gun guy, he wanted to you know with the gun. I ran for the hills, he got my number of my mate and persued me for ages, to put it midly I was petrified.
And sword collection guy, actually 3 of my friends all slept with the same guy and only knew because we discussed the sword collection.

tinierclanger · 14/04/2009 19:39

All my LTRs started with first-night sex. But I do have VERY good judgement.

noddyholder · 15/04/2009 15:34

Lou this is so exciting I always new he'd come back.I like the sound of the curly hair maybe it will all work out this time.I am a tragic romantic!!!!!

lou33 · 15/04/2009 15:42

i am updating on the fit and interesting men thread in lone parents if you need more information

we are coming your way in may for a show!

BigBellasBeerBelly · 15/04/2009 15:42

Oh piss I read your post noddy and (forgetting the OP's name) thought that the one night stand had texted the OP back!

got very over excited...

Never mind!

lou33 · 15/04/2009 15:44

if it helps at all, this was the exbf who was meant to only be a fling, but didnt turn out like that, who emigrated and i havent seen for 2 yrs, so it kind of qualifies lol

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didIreally · 15/04/2009 21:54

Not heard a peep from Mr bag stealer! (Thats a joke- the bag wasn't that nice!)
No regrets though, had a wicked night and did me good!
Not sure I could do it on a regular basis, Im still shattered from the lack of sleep!!!

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didIreally · 15/04/2009 22:19

PS-Lou, hope you have a fab time with your guy

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lou33 · 16/04/2009 11:45

thanks, he is comingup on saturday afternoon

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