to expect that just occasionally my DH could give me a hug....

[thumbwitch]

without feeling the need to dry-hump me from behind???

It's really starting to wind me up - there I am making DS's dinner/washing up/cleaning my teeth, DH comes up behind me to give me a hug and suddenly it's dry-hump attack! I wouldn't mind if it was only occasionally, but it's EVERY BLOODY TIME!

(yes we are having sex, thanks )

fart next time he does it, that should stop it.

lol. I believe the term used is JAck-Russelling

good idea - that does put him off - can't always do it to order, though

lol diff - never heard it called that before!

Lol

someone used the term and i hadn't heard it so I asked what they meant.

I shall tell DH - we have an in-joke thing that he should have been a dog/will come back as a dog, so he will heartily appreciate it - now, HOW do I stop it? apart from farting at will?

but surely it's a turn on, no?

christ, no! As I said, if it was occasionally it probably would be but every time? No, it's just getting bloody irritating.

I don't know how you stop it ..my dh still finds it funny (together 10 years this year)

and when I try and turn the tables he likes it arggghhhhh

oh yes, I've tried that too - he thinks that's even funnier!

thumbwitch have you seen tclanger about tonight?. theres a thread on sn that needs her!

nope, not seen her... have you tried doing a search for her?

nah, i m just slutting about thread jumping!

Are we married to the same man thumbwitch? My DH is exactly the same. I have to hit him away with a tea towel or similar. Is he worse when he's hung over? My DH did it in front of my mother FFS!

Marthasmama - no, he hasn't had any alcohol for 5m (self-imposed), so not even that excuse!

drlove8 - I've checked, she doesn't seem to have been on line today.

I welcome it- but in my house it counts as a 'proper session', thereby leaving me time for proper bed stuff like reading and sleeping.

well, if he's doing it and you're having sex, i'd say tell him he won't be having sex for much longer if he carries on

dh always goes for a quick 'cup' of my norks when he hugs me. drives me crackers. angry crackers, not wild with desire crackers!

now there's an idea...
DH isn't allowed anywhere near my norks as still bf'ing and they are fairly sensitive - that would earn something majorly painful, I feel!

Martha, what was your motyher's response?

I fear every man is hard wired (geddit??)to do this, sadly.
Certainly every one I have ever been intimate with does it regular, like.

at moondog and "hard wired"!

And my dh still doing it regulalry and vigorously after 20 years together.
I suppose i should be flattered...

you mean I've got to put up with this forever?

Aye.
(But I note you are trying to conceive on t'other thread so maybe no bad think your dh is over friendly?)

lol moondog - no, I think it's more counterproductive cos it irritates me far more than it turns me on and when irritated, I am not in the best state for doing the horizontal tango!!