DS is 9mo and has started waking at night - teething I think
DD (4) sometimes gets out of bed too but is usually quite easy to settle again.
DH is SAHD, I work full time.
The norm just now is for us to be awake for about 1.5 hours from 3am onwards (not every night, I hasten to add, but quite often).
I think that during the week DH should pick up DS and settle him quietly and as promptly as he can - that's what I did when I was on mat leave and DH was working. At the weekend it's my turn.
Instead DH seems to expect that it's a team effort and we should both be up... he also gets very grumpy and stamps about the bedroom, and gets pretty impatient with DS, thus ensuring that I am wide awake and angry.
When DD is up it's nearly always me who sorts her out and actually I don't mind that so much, she always asks for me anyway.
DH is at home with DC today knackered. I am at work (lunch break now) knackered. I think we need to have a talk about how we handle this. IABU?