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to be secretly chuffed that teenage boys shouted MILF at me when I walked

390 replies

LoveMyLapTop · 16/02/2009 17:42

past them?

ANd it was at me there was no one else around!

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SalmonintheLiffey · 16/02/2009 20:25

I'd be revolted tbh. I'd rather their Dads were thinking it than their son's yelling it.

I'm so civilised.

snooks · 16/02/2009 20:26

twinset, why would you be writing those words on the board? (that is an innocent question).

wotulookinat · 16/02/2009 20:27

I'm with Snooks on this one. LIGHTEN UP

OrmIrian · 16/02/2009 20:28

Yay frosty! I love it when stereotyes come true

twinsetandpearls · 16/02/2009 20:28

WALT we are learing today
WILF What I'm looking for

With some classes I have given up and use LO Learning objective.

SalmonintheLiffey · 16/02/2009 20:29

Absolutely Lou33, I remember once years ago a friend's boyfriend kept annoying me and making trouble by telling me I was 'fuckable' He expected me to be flattered. His lack of respect for ME as well as for his girlfriend obviously was hideously unattractive imo.

They split up a while later thankfully.

WinkyWinkola · 16/02/2009 20:29

Aw what? So when teenage boys shout out they fancy me (I love it!), they're not serious? They don't want me?

Gutted.

StayFrosty · 16/02/2009 20:29

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twinsetandpearls · 16/02/2009 20:30
Grin
MmeLindt · 16/02/2009 20:31

Twinset
What does WALT and WILF mean?

I have no opinion on the MILF issue, other than it is a vulgar thing for teenage boys to shout. Would not bother me but would not flatter me either (in the unlikely event of anyone shouting that at me)

LauriefairycakeeatsCupid · 16/02/2009 20:31

but they're not fancying anyone - they'd like to fuck someone

abhorrent behaviour - really yukky, not remotely flattering.

StayFrosty · 16/02/2009 20:32

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Lilyloo · 16/02/2009 20:33

Winky
about time we had a thread that was a bit of fun been a bit devoid of that around here lately.......

snooks · 16/02/2009 20:33

lol twinset

"WALT we are learing today"

did you mean "we are leering today"?

twinsetandpearls · 16/02/2009 20:34

I agree actually about MILF being unnacceptbale, I have phoned home when I have heard young boys use it to a member of staff and it has not been often.

Young boys can very easily get carried away, I was in my early years of teaching a victim of a sexual assault from a boy and a few years later a young boy followed me home and theatened to rape me anally. I contacted the police over the last case and ensured he had to sit his GCSEs at a different school.

twinsetandpearls · 16/02/2009 20:34

pmsl snooks.
we are learning today.

snooks · 16/02/2009 20:37

twinset i did guess that was the typo, yes.

at your previous post - imagined that it would kill the thread, but maybe mine will instead.

snooks · 16/02/2009 20:38

sorry, meant to at the typo bit

SalmonintheLiffey · 16/02/2009 20:39

I can't believe some people are saying 'lighten up' blah blah/.

These are probably 'our' sons, or will be our sons. This is the way things are now.

A woman's only real value in the eyes of a depressingly large number of men is how fuckable she is on a scale of one to ten.

Obviously they'd fuck anything higher than one, but bonus kudos points on a sliding scale upwards.

And yes I'm single and desperate and a lesbian. Well, the first two. But no matter how desperate I am, luckily I'm still sane enough to realise "I'd fuck you" isn't a compliment.

twinsetandpearls · 16/02/2009 20:40

The first incident was caused by me being an inexperienced young teacher and I handled it wrong. He was making innapropriate comments and I did not deal with it in the correct way, he took my failure to take a firm line as tacit approval of his behaviour.

Dammit · 16/02/2009 20:40

"What an attractive and interesting woman you are" is not the same as "I'd like to jack hammer you for 3 pokey minutes with my gonnorhoea ridden pencil dick - you can stare at my acne and whispy 'tache while I do it."

tsap. V glad you contacted the police about the second incident. about the first.

SalmonintheLiffey · 16/02/2009 20:42

Years ago, and the end of a party somebody told me i was beguiling. I remembered that one. probably meant the same thing!, but at least the man made some effort to dress it up a bit; knew that 'i want to fuck you' was just shabby and unimpressive.

twinsetandpearls · 16/02/2009 20:42

He was a bit of a nutjob, he had found out where teachers socialised on a Friday night and had turned up at the pub to yell insults at us. He was removed from the pub and this clearly hurt his pride. I can remember being very very worried that I would be blamed because I was drunk ( the incident happened at about midnight).

lou33 · 16/02/2009 20:43

i would be horrified if i ever heard one of my boys talking in such a way about a woman, when they were older

fortunately they are still at the stage where the thought of kissing any other woman but their mum is vomit inducing, let alone anything else

twinsetandpearls · 16/02/2009 20:44

I once asked my dp why he decided after our first date that he wanted to see me again. He said I had the most mesmerising tits he had ever seen, he did follow it up by the fact he thought i was funny and clever.

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