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AIBU?

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Original poster

my friend of 2yrs has not invited me to her home ever

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lipstickjungle · 11/12/2008 14:18

hi i am dissapointed in my friend whom i have known for "2yrs she has never invited to her home she won't even let me know her street, she has been coming to my hse and we do a lot of things together, i know a lot of people are intimidated with my hme- its a long story (big mortgage ect) but i am really down to earth our babies are the same age apart from that she is lovely.

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purpleduckUnderTheMistletoe · 12/12/2008 13:39

"the front bit opens on to the Thames"

Does the Ocado man arrive by barge...?

wotuhohohoinat · 12/12/2008 13:45

Bitchy? Moi?
I just thought you sounded rather pompous describing your house as 'intimidating'. You don't know where your friend lives - she may have a mansion and not want you to feel bad.

Kitteh · 12/12/2008 14:23

NotSo, it is really hard isnt it.. I dont really know how to stop feeling like it.. its funny how when things take hold they can really restrict us..

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lipstickjungle · 12/12/2008 14:24

wotu she has told me she lives in a one bedroom flat so that bit i know about her-anywhere there is more to life than all this.
am freezing in my castle so feeling so sorry about the bitchy remark.

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TippytheTipsyTurkeychick · 12/12/2008 14:24

I can't have peeps back to mine as I don't have one, I am staying with my mum, with my daughter and I in one room. Maybe she doesn't want to tell you that or something similar.It's not much fun for a grown up to admit to after all.

nappyaddict · 12/12/2008 14:28

Tippy - same here. doesn't your mum let you have people over either? it sucks doesn't it

TippytheTipsyTurkeychick · 12/12/2008 14:30

Ah she would but it would mean a sitting room full of people and kids, a big mess, I'd feel I was driving my mum and step dad out of their own home. Maybe the girl the OP knows has something similar to cope with.

nappyaddict · 12/12/2008 14:31

Tippy - can you not have people around when your mum and step-dad are out? that's what i do.

wotuhohohoinat · 12/12/2008 14:43

Lipstick, you never said that she told you that before.

Shefflin · 12/12/2008 15:21

She sounds like one bad meff. Tell her to do one.

Pimmpom · 12/12/2008 15:28

Shefflin, are you bored today?

Shefflin · 12/12/2008 15:30

Aye. I don't even know Mrs Bucket or her pal. How you?

wotuhohohoinat · 12/12/2008 15:32

Lol at Mrs Bucket!

mazzystartled · 12/12/2008 15:37

It sounds a little bit sad to me. It makes me wonder if she has got a miserable git of a husband whv doesn't like people coming round or something horrible like that.

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