Well dh can't drive (well he can sort of - I'll explain later) and is a vegetarian. He has quite small feet too. None of this affected how attractive I found hin when I first met him. I am also perfectly happy in the bed department, dh has no inadquacies there whatsoever!.
HOWEVER I do find it very frustrating that he doesn't drive. The reason he never learned was that in his 20's his priority was getting a phd and he was incredibly poor so couldn't afford it. He did ride a scooter around but wasn't too fond of it. All very understandable. By the time he could afford lessons he was nearly 30. Academics don't get paid much at all.
I asked him to learn to drive when we decided to have a baby and was worried about getting to the hospital etc. As it happens I ended up having to manoeuvre the car out of it's parking space while my waters were breaking as dh managed to dent the car twice in his effort ot get it out (he had only passed a couple of weeks before). He did drive me to the hospital but I seriously considered driving myself as I knew it would be safer and quicker as I was having no pains - just my waters breaking.
He has ended up driving an automatic as he was so bad at the lessons he felt this would increase his chance of passing. It did but the fact that he now only has a licence for an automatic is quite frankly annoying as hell as it means I have to drive one if we are to share a car and they are more expensive.
His driving is so bad I do prefer to drive myself and he doesn't enjoy it so tends to avoid it. I do think that learning as an older adult is much more difficult than if you do it younger. Dh does ride a bike and uses public transport and takes ds everywhere on either of those. He does not rely on me driving him anywhere.
As a man he is driven, singleminded, assertive, focussed, organised and capable. He is fearsonly intelligent and yet also kind, tolerant, loving, funny and often confounds any sterotypical expectations of what it is to be male, something I frankly find fantastic. He inability to drive does not affect how attractive I find him it but it does annoy me and I do find myself resenting it some of the time.