I find myself in agreement with Xenia - on the general point anyway about grown men in nightclubs - though that a grown man would go to a nightcklub, nay want to go to a nightclub would say he's still in the game to me.
As for wives "their husbands to be complete sexist pigs" - I have no idea how one would begin to force your husnabd to do anything. Fliop it on it's head and you have a man oppressing a woman. That's a conundrum.
Maybe a bit of pity might actually be in order for such people who have not been so lucky as to make a compatible match as some.