She has done everything she can to irritate me and caused loads of problems for our wedding.
Then when we got our son christened she wasn't centre of attention so she sat there with a face on her, sent her H over to have a go at me, was annoyed that my mum had held the baby more than her even though my mum made an effort to pay for the christening unexpectedly, come over and hold the baby, and take him round to see other people so they could hold her. MIL didn't even come over to see him and went mad that we didn't take him over. Then she left early with SIL's DP's parents to go to another pub.
Now she has minded the baby the other day, purposely doesn't listen to what I tell her to do with him- didn't even give him his medicine, because she wants to be his mum because she's infertile now.
When I went to pick him up she got all excited and showed me a pic of the dress she's getting for my wedding. It is white and floaty.
No one should wear white to a wedding but she's obviously doing it on purpose to be centre of attention.
I didn't take the baby to see her much when he'd just been born as I wanted us to spend the first week as a family. She has slagged me off a lot and been really awkward over this.
It's like she's hideously jealous of me.
She even copies my hairstyles and colours everytime I get it done and she dresses young and tries to relive her youth.
So AIBU? I wouldn't wear a white dress to someone's wedding.