I LOVE weddings.
When else do you get to dress up, sing hymns, have a little cry, see all your old mates, start drinking in the afternoon, get a meal and then dance all night.
Never anymore, unless it's a wedding.
I couldn't give two hoots though about the entrance music, colour scheme, cars, cakes etc, and would certainly not compare wedding on those pointless criteria.
I personally find that my enjoyment of a wedding is usually highly correlated to my affection for the person/people getting married.
If it's someone you really care about you get caught up in the excitement and emotion for them, and cry more, sing louder, get generally drunk by 5.00pm and dance like a mad thing all night, whilst periodically telling your mate/sister/neighbour how beautiful they look/how happy you are for them/what a wonderful wedding this is (repetively and with incresed emotion as the night goes on).
I may make comparisons about speeches, as some go down in the hall of fame for emotion/humour or cringabilty, but all are usually good, I love the speeches.
what's not to love?
To the OP though, enjoy their wedding, their day and stop focusing on the crappola minutae, which NEVER matters and certainly doesn't make a wedding.
imo.