Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Give me your most random ‘ick’

385 replies

laughterworry0 · Yesterday 22:45

I want the weirdest of icks, I’m bored and want a giggle..

I’ll go first…

skinny jeans

OP posts:
JMSA · Today 21:14

Men who use umbrellas. Just be manly and get wet.
Men who drive one minute to get somewhere. Unmanly. Walk it.

AbsoluteHoot · Today 21:15

Men who carry handkerchiefs. And even worse, blow their noses in public into them. <shudder>

TheDogsNewPinkCollar · Today 21:18

UsernameNotAvailableApparently · Today 20:42

This has absolutely sent me and I’ve no idea why 😂

I used to work the breakfast shift in a hotel years ago… Having to serve men who wore as little as possible was stomach churning.
Vests ( with armpit hair sticking out) short shorts (😵‍💫) and bare bloody hairy crabby feet in sliders used to make me retch. Particularly bad if the man was not clean and smelt stale and ‘leftover from the night before’. Truly horrible.

Iwishicouldflyhigh · Today 21:28

CherryBlossom321 · Yesterday 23:03

Yes - rugby shirts for me too, but polo’s are the ultimate 🤮

I never knew this about polo shirts! What about the smart Boss or Ralph Lauren ones?

My DH wears them a lot (he is trim) and i like them!

JHound · Today 21:29

TrishM80 · Today 07:35

Of course, everyone posting in this thread is perfect.

Why do you have to be perfect to have icks? Men have icks too.

Mumtobabyhavoc · Today 21:32

"Men who use umbrellas. Just be manly and get wet."

😂😂😂

HisStericalTestes · Today 21:33

Nose picking, especially when they think they are doing it stealthily and you aren't able to hear or see them doing it, then rolling it between their fingers from the corner of your eye.

Yes was an ex. He would disgustingly then nibble it out from under his fingernails and try to kiss me. Funny how once you have seen a partner do it you seem to notice every man doing it for the rest of your life though. So many wives I have pitied from a bus or hotel balcony...

FindingMeno · Today 21:34

Most people give me the ick.

JHound · Today 21:36

shuggles · Today 18:00

Amazing, now natural body hair is somehow disgusting.

Where have you been? Loads of people have that ick, especially when it comes to women with hairy legs / armpits.

Veronicasharmonica · Today 21:37

I was on a date with a man I was falling HARD for. Then I noticed when he talked animatedly he held his little finger in a really weird way and that was it. Couldn’t get past it!

HorseandHeron · Today 21:42

Greenmouldycheese · Yesterday 22:58

Sorry. I have strong feelings about leggins 😆, especially black ones.

How can you have special strong feelings about black leggings when there are people in skin-coloured butt-scrunch leggings moving freely in public.

MAMILS. A man in lycra with a bike is an instant stomach churn.

MurphysColeslaw · Today 21:42

@SexyFrenchDepression
sharing the love for Rossif Sutherland

Clafoutie · Today 21:44

PeppyMintCat · Today 19:37

Being called 'Lee'
'Gawjus'
'How's u'
40 year old men with bellies and man boobs wearing Montirex

‘How’s u’ Arghh, yes! 😬😆

MurphysColeslaw · Today 21:44

AbsoluteHoot · Today 21:15

Men who carry handkerchiefs. And even worse, blow their noses in public into them. <shudder>

Today I watched a man blow his nose and open the tissue to examine it’s contents.
I thought of this thread

SexyFrenchDepression · Today 21:44

MurphysColeslaw · Today 21:42

@SexyFrenchDepression
sharing the love for Rossif Sutherland

I have had a long standing relationship (in my head) with Kiefer, but I have a new love for Rossif. They have very similar voices (like their dad) and it makes me melt.

Honeypickle · Today 21:45

secretrocker · Today 09:48

😂
Does anyone do that??
Outside of old Carry On Films?
I'm picturing Charles Hawtrey.
😂

You can’t have watched Celebrity Traitors then, with sweet little Bash holding his nose as he jumped into the water (admittedly as he plummeted from a helicopter into a lake).

CruCru · Today 21:46

I am a horrible pedant but I think most of these are not actual icks - just things people agree are unattractive.

An ick is something your monkey brain picks up on but your human brain is too clever to do so (or tries to justify). A man can appear to be good looking, nice, fun etc but then does something that the monkey brain recognises as not being something that you can live with.

I once went off a man because he pronounced the “l” in “folks” (comes up sometimes in some south coast accents). I am sure that he made someone else very happy but he wasn’t for me.

MurphysColeslaw · Today 21:47

MeAndTheDoggo · Today 20:34

The word polyp 🤢🤢🤢

This made me laugh, although I can’t imagine you encounter its use much? 😁

MurphysColeslaw · Today 21:49

SexyFrenchDepression · Today 21:44

I have had a long standing relationship (in my head) with Kiefer, but I have a new love for Rossif. They have very similar voices (like their dad) and it makes me melt.

Ooof 😅

bargainbasementblues · Today 21:50

Date once texted me that I would recognise him (online date) because he was wearing a flat cap, an anorak and carrying a plastic bag. I laughed because I thought he was joking. He wasn't.

MurphysColeslaw · Today 21:51

I am both horrified and turned on by this thread in equal measure 😳

HisStericalTestes · Today 21:52

MurphysColeslaw · Today 21:47

This made me laugh, although I can’t imagine you encounter its use much? 😁

Nose picker had a nasal polyp, so I wasn't allowed to tell him off for picking in public...he mentioned it a lot when I gave him a look.

SexyFrenchDepression · Today 21:52

CruCru · Today 21:46

I am a horrible pedant but I think most of these are not actual icks - just things people agree are unattractive.

An ick is something your monkey brain picks up on but your human brain is too clever to do so (or tries to justify). A man can appear to be good looking, nice, fun etc but then does something that the monkey brain recognises as not being something that you can live with.

I once went off a man because he pronounced the “l” in “folks” (comes up sometimes in some south coast accents). I am sure that he made someone else very happy but he wasn’t for me.

I don't know, you're probably right but I think a lot are icks as they are fine on some people but that one time someone wears something or says something it completely switches you off them. For others it might be unattractive but doesnt put you off a person. I was terrible in my late teens, I would get the ick so easily, be absolutely mad about someone and then all of a sudden they would do one thing and I couldn't stand them.

Its not always the same for every person either, some people you can cope with them doing those things or looking a certain way but some you just can't. I think some of mine were things I find unattractive but equally make me shudder on some people.

HorseandHeron · Today 21:53

Iwishicouldflyhigh · Today 21:28

I never knew this about polo shirts! What about the smart Boss or Ralph Lauren ones?

My DH wears them a lot (he is trim) and i like them!

So do I. I love the 1930s style ones. DS has a few and I think he looks great in them.

Mumtobabyhavoc · Today 21:54

Peachblossom25 · Today 20:23

Bobble hats. A beanie is fine. But a bobble wobbling around on top of a grown man’s wooly hat. Nope, nopey, nope, nope!! 😂

Like these Blue Jays fans?

Blue Jays Baseball GIF by Toronto Blue Jays
Swipe left for the next trending thread