I agree.
I no longer use Air BnB because the whole dynamic as a paying customer is flipped from a hotel situation.
In a hotel, they take care of everything and any issues are a case for apologies to be made. Toilet tissue is provided as needed (they don't seem to have this weird issue that Air Bnb hosts live in fear of, of guests loading their suitcases with rolls of spare toilet tissue.)
In Air BnB it's the reverse: it's like they expect you to be grateful you are giving them business or, even more accurately, are lending you their precious home as a favour. Thus, you should act like an obsequious house guest, hoovering behind you and ideally using and touching as little as possible. It totally changes the vibe of a relaxing stay as you are constantly telling children not to touch, trying not to make a mess, careful with that mug etc etc. I might as well stay home and clean my own home. Ironically, we have never broken or ruined anything in a hotel.
I've paid to stay. Like hell am I stripping the bed. That came in with Covid as an understandable hygiene precaution but those days are gone.
The last Air Bnb we stayed in we were on the phone in the middle of winter trying to get them to talk us through what needed doing to activate the Nest heating, which they CONTROLLED THE TEMPERATURE of remotely. Unfortunately this arrangement had failed to turn on at all and they were acting like we were being somehow demanding for persisting in trying to get it on. We couldn't get to the boiler as it was in a locked cupboard, so they had to get a plumber who was told the secret location of the key. The plumber, hilariously at this point, unlocked the hidey cupboard to get to the boiler in which was stashed about 400 rolls of toilet tissue - presumably the reason for the lock and hidden key! Even he was smirking.
It was just so Fawlty Towers - and so paranoid, controlling and fundamentally unwelcoming.