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Would it be unreasonable to offer to pay my cleaner less?

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kissthefish · 24/10/2026 23:10

I have a new cleaner. He started with me a couple of weeks ago. So far, so good. I have paid him so far by bank transfer on the day. However he has asked if I can pay him in future in cash.
Thing is, it’s an awkward amount. £54. I have no issue doing this when I’m at work, as my workplace is very close to a bank. However on school holidays (I’m a teacher) it’s going to be an inconvenient pain in the ass, as I don’t live near a bank. I tend not to have cash floating around, as I pay for everything by card.
Would I be unreasonable to offer to pay him £50 cash during the holidays?
Also, is it the norm for cleaners not to make the bed? He leaves them as they are (roughly made, as the mornings are a rush) but doesn’t straighten them out, which looks odd in a clean bedroom.
Thanks.

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Ziga · 24/10/2026 23:12

I think if his rate is £54 then you can’t change that. Agree he should be making the bed though? You might want to try him for a bit longer and see if it’s working out or not.

Crucible · 24/10/2026 23:13

Just refuse to pay cash. And send the 54 quid. Asking to pay less because you can't find 4 pound coins is daft.

tastal · 24/10/2026 23:13

tell him the £4 makes it awkward and see if he offers the lower price

kissthefish · 24/10/2026 23:14

Thanks. Oh, and obviously I did ask him to make the bed, but there have been a couple of slight miscommunications due to the language barrier.

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kissthefish · 24/10/2026 23:15

Crucible · 24/10/2026 23:13

Just refuse to pay cash. And send the 54 quid. Asking to pay less because you can't find 4 pound coins is daft.

I know that on paper it definitely does sound daft! But there’s no escaping the fact that’s it’s going to be annoying in the holidays.

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roses2 · 24/10/2026 23:16

£54 is awkward and clearly for tax avoidance. How good are they at cleaning and have you got lots of choice in your area or would it be a pain if you had to find a new cleaner?

Ineffable23 · 24/10/2026 23:16

Hmmm I used to deal with this by paying an extra tenner one week and then the lower rounded amount for the next few weeks, but mine was £2 so easier really.

Another friend does it by going to the bank and getting £50 in £1 coins every few months.

I now just pay by bank transfer which is miles easier though so I don't blame you at all for finding it annoying.

CharlotteSometimes1 · 24/10/2026 23:16

I’d tell him you are unable to pay cash, sounds like a tax dodger.

kissthefish · 24/10/2026 23:17

roses2 · 24/10/2026 23:16

£54 is awkward and clearly for tax avoidance. How good are they at cleaning and have you got lots of choice in your area or would it be a pain if you had to find a new cleaner?

He is an excellent, basic cleaner. He just doesn’t do the nice finishing touches that my old cleaner did.
And good cleaners are hard to come by where I live.

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GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 24/10/2026 23:19

I had an independent cleaner for a while who wanted cash and I did find it a pita! Their tax affairs are down to them but it was just annoying.

Ive got back to a cleaning company (proper company, employs the cleaners themselves, all the proper tax etc done) and its such a relief to just get an invoice to pay online!

FunPartyIdeas · 24/10/2026 23:19

@kissthefish How many hours does he do for £54? I wondering if I need a new job... 😀

OliviaBonas · 24/10/2026 23:19

Can you just pay £55 cash instead?

WhatsItAllForAnyway · 24/10/2026 23:20

I'd round it up to 55 myself. That way you don't insult him and make it easier for yourself.

HappyViewer · 24/10/2026 23:21

How hard is it to ask him to make the beds?

kissthefish · 24/10/2026 23:21

FunPartyIdeas · 24/10/2026 23:19

@kissthefish How many hours does he do for £54? I wondering if I need a new job... 😀

Edited

It’s £54. 3 hours at £18.
I supply the cleaning products.

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Themadcleaner · 24/10/2026 23:21

Just ask him to straighten up the beds, if he's any good he wont mind, some people like that doing and others might find it intrusive. The cash is an awkward amount, if he wont do a transfer. Maybe get a few fivers handy and pay 55 a week if he's worth keeping?

TheLemonLemur · 24/10/2026 23:21

I would be more annoyed if this is to avoid universal credit seeing he is working. My relative had a cleaner long time ago who was £11 an hour used to pay £20 a week for 2 hours then gave her £100 at xmas with her agreement

kissthefish · 24/10/2026 23:22

HappyViewer · 24/10/2026 23:21

How hard is it to ask him to make the beds?

About as hard as it is to read the comment where I said I’d already asked him.

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SapphireSteel28 · 24/10/2026 23:23

I wouldn’t pay cash if I knew it was to work whilst claiming UC and avoid tax.

kissthefish · 24/10/2026 23:25

SapphireSteel28 · 24/10/2026 23:23

I wouldn’t pay cash if I knew it was to work whilst claiming UC and avoid tax.

Yes, I know what you mean. He does work for an agency as well, obviously for a slightly lower hourly rate. And has a few private clients too (like me).

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ilovesooty · 24/10/2026 23:25

I'd be saying that I'd prefer to pay by bank transfer. I don't pay cash for services but your view may not be the same as mine. Regardless of that though, getting cash out is inconvenient for you.

PrawnAgain · 24/10/2026 23:30

Would it be ok for your employer to round down the amount they had agreed to pay you?

Just tell him cash isn't convenient and continue paying him his full wage via bank transfer

Mumtobabyhavoc · 24/10/2026 23:31

You have to specify what you want done and then agree on price.
Totally unreasonable to expect him to take a pay cut now.
If you want a record of payment so that there is no question of whether or not you paid, then tell him that.

UnfilteredMum · 24/10/2026 23:33

Agree with what others are saying about checking his reason for wanting cash. I am ok with paying cash if someone is struggling, but generally I want taxes paid to fund schools and hospitals etc!

If its a good reason, I think it would be reasonable to give him a choice of bank transfer for £54 or cash for £50 per week (holidays or not). Or to put the onus on him to give change.

I sympathise about language issue - I've had that problem in the past - these days I find google translate helps a lot, so don't be embarrassed to use it to ask again about details you want included.

rainingsnoring · 24/10/2026 23:34

I don't think it's reasonable to reduce his hourly rate but you can say that you can't provide cash. He's obviously wanting to avoid paying tax on his wages.